Single and horny

[Drvemecrzee]

Single parent, female, mid 40s, randomly bump into an old classmate, a couple of weeks ago.

A quick convo and what I would say, a weird vibe, i carried on with my day. Out of nowhere, for the last couple of weeks all I can think about is having sex with him, and it is driving me crazy.

As I have not have sex for a year, I cannot tell if I am just actually horny and want sex or if he picked up on the weird vibe too and somehow its sent my mind and body into overdrive. I don't even think I fancied him.

Just wondering if it a thing or am I weird

I can confirm you're not weird: as you suspect, you are just actually horny and want sex.

Yep, you want sex which is after all entirely normal and healthy.

....and you won't be short of offers on here now.....

Have you asked him out yet?!

Did you have any attraction to him when you were classmates? Or suspect he might have had a thing for you? If so, that could explain the weird vibe.

Assume you’re both on social media, so drop him a message and if he’s single ask him out for a drink.

It’s like when you walk past the chip shop and smell fish and chips and then you really want fish and chips and you think about it. But you’re on a diet and no you can’t have fish and chips because it will send you down the junk food rabbit hole.

but you're desperately hungry - you have the Fish & Chips with a side of onion rings . it's bloody good at the time but you feel guilty the next day

I'd jump on in, he will love it

Mid40’s - it’s the sex surge of menopause. It drives some women wild (me included).

Possibly both! If you are single, reach out to him and see if he will meet your needs. Best of luck!

If you’re single you’ve got nothing to loose, I’m sure he would be more than happy to give you the pleasure you crave

Send him a message to see if he wants to go on a date. And if he's single too you have nothing too loose. And no its not strange you've been single for a year so its natural your going to feel very horny at times. Hope it all works out and you manage to have some good sex 😜 😉 xx

You are single. You don't need our permission, we are adults and understand even those of us in a drought!
But we would like to know how it goes for you both. 'cause we are nosey, concerned for you.😉