Life without love is sole destroying

[Lifesabummer]

Having read many contributions from mumsnetters both under various relationships headings and in threads under the various sex headings.
I am going to say this to you all, life is far too short to sit and SUFFER like so many of u have, even though many come on with their various issues/ problems to try and get help/ advice from the rest if us.
I have come to the conclusion that I think we are not even scratching the surface because it takes a hell of a lot of guts to post on forums like this and there are probably many 100s nay 1000s wishing they had the bravery of the various contributors, so I am saying to YOU the the silent majority POST your innermost thoughts we will try and help u as best we can, but PLEASE PLEASE DONT SIT THERE IN SILENT DREADING WHATS GOING TO GO WRONG AGAIN IN THE NEXT 24 HOURS

Ok…. Thank you.

Should I get pizza after the gym tonight 🤔

@Gymbunny2025 There is only ever one answer to that Question 😂

Thank you brave contributor 🙏

Sole destroying?

All that walking about when you should be lying down I guess... 😉

Alternatively you can learn to love yourself. Instead of waiting for male validation.

In addition we can work on enjoying a faith of our choice. Though many people aren't into that. These strategies seem to help me anyway.

I’m not sure what to say really. 🤔

This is some deep shit right here.

Here are my innermost thoughts at 5.30am - how can I tell my husband I think we need separate bedrooms? We are great together, we have a lovely sex life, no issues at all except his fucking snoring, which has come on in the past few months. Never so much as a grunt at night for 20 years but now it's like lying next to a fucking tractor.

Voodoo, He needs to get an appointment to see a sleep specialist at your local hospital or local nhs diagnostic centre your description sounds very much like a form of sleep apnoea I am aware of. It can be cured but I also know of cases where it has not worked i will explain more in a pm if u want
Best wishes in your efforts to find a cure it's not a separate bedroom solution just yet.

Love does not exist.

Oh but it does. It’s just hard to find…

Have you never been in love?

At the time I'd have said yes. Looking back..... it probably wasn't.