My DH and I have both acknowledged our sex life has been quite bland over the past year and we've both been suggesting new ideas and trying new things to spicy it up - some things have worked, some haven't.
A few weeks ago, my husband asked if I could sleep without underwear on the nights I wear a nightie, so he can give me some wake up sex. I totally understand this isn't for everyone but we both enjoy waking up to the other arousing us and are both completely consenting to this.
This has been a real winner for us and wakening up to him lubed up and slipping inside me is my favourite wake up. It's really common for us both to orgasm from these sessions and it's something we both want to keep going with.
Last week, he asked if we could add to this a bit by me also going commando on days I've chosen to wear a dress/ skirt. The premise being he can use his hands or impromptu sex through the day. Again, I have absolute trust and everything is consensual (he has no say in what I wear each day but a dress/ skirt is an indication from me that I'm up for it that day).
Nothing had happened in the days I'd done this so far, so I had an idea in my head but we hadn't tried it out yet. Last night as I was giving the kitchen a quick once over before heading to bed, he came in from behind and pressed me against the counter, lifted my dress and DTD. I remained pressed again the counter the whole time, in a position we both like. Once done, he headed off to bed and I finished up downstairs before joining him.
A day later as I think it through, I'm wondering if we've developed a free use situation, does anyone have experience of this they could share?