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Older man obsessive after first date F32 M45

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mummyofboys31xx · 22/07/2025 18:12

So I need to talk to someone, I am a 32 year old single mother of 8 and 6 year olds. been separate since 2021, I met some guy in London in 2021 he is 45, who asked for my number but I gave him my Facebook, hes been begging to date me messaging for years he is Brazilian but works in France, finally after years of begging, I let him take me out last weekend, he booked a flight straight over and he met me at the mall and bought gifts for me, jewlerry and other stuff, he wouldn't stop kissing or touching me, we spent the day together and I went home, the next morning he was leaving London so I went to his hotel and we had two hours of "love making" it was so passionate and he just kissed me all over and showed me so much love, but its been a week and he has not stopped messaging constantly, he is coming back tomorrow to spend a few days with me!! here're some of the messages
You drive me crazy
You are the best woman i have ever seen in my whole life 💖
You drive me crazy
I want one baby
I want to have a child with you
You won’t be alone this time
I'm leaving at 9 or 10 at night to finish as quickly as possible. I need to see my love. I'm going to France on Wednesday. Before I go, I need to hug my future wife.
I want you in my life
You are perfect
You are more beautiful without makeup or lashes!
You're my life
My life
I want one baby
It can be my love, it will be easier, I want to be close to you always.
I wish I was there right now lying next to you
You will make me love you very easily.
We will be together for all moments.
I didn't want anyone, I wanted to be alone, focus on my work Now everything has changed❤️
It's been a long time since I've had anyone
I'm taking our relationship seriously. "I want you."
I will be faithful to you, I want to have a family. I want a wife, children, and family.
My friends from France want to meet you. They want to know which princess won my heart ♥️
I miss you so much!
I want your son's. I will take care of your son's
I don't care what you wear or walk, I know you are a wonderful woman and an extraordinary mother.
You are mine now
You are amazing
The only thing I ask of you is to respect me, I don't care what you wear, where or where you go, but wherever you are, always remember that there is a man who really likes you.
I want you in my life forever.
I will only leave you if one day you no longer want me.
You are my life
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are mine!
You also can't imagine how long I was alone waiting for a wife. I never gave up on you, I always tried to stay as close to you as possible.
I love kissing you, smelling you, I want to wake up next to you, kissing you from head to toe.
You are amazing!
The best
We will be together, I will help you, we will do many things together, decorate your house.
You are the best❤️
I miss you!
Do you think I will lose you easily? No way
I miss you!
Understand how much I fought to win you over and look at the dates
I want only you
I will take care of you and your sons
I miss you!😘😘😘
You will be my wife!
I will take over and we will build a family
I will look after you
I really like you ♥️
Good morning, my honey
You will be mine forever!😉
You make me happy 😊
I want a daughter with you
I miss you so much, I really want to kiss you and hug you
You look beautiful without makeup
Much younger and more beautiful 😍
I know that, my princess, we live far away, but I will do my best to ensure we are always together.
I can help you with anything?
Good morning! The woman of my life
Everything I want I can get
Now you will pay for all this time I waited for you, I will make you love me
Now I need a new talent to win you over
I —— in to you very fast, I usually take a while to come
I'm starting to get so creeped out, a few red flags, he keeps saying he wants a baby. I have two and he has 3 older kids! another thing, on our date he kept saying I can't believe how young you look, you dont even look 24 and how much loved that. I feel these messages are a lot, what should I do? does this sound normal? He also refuses to wear condoms and gets funny when I mention them

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Gymbunny2025 · 22/07/2025 18:20

A few red flags? He sounds utterly terrifying. Does he know where you live? Can you block on absolutely everything? I’d not delete anything and keep evidence just in case.

I hope it goes ok

GigiAnnna · 22/07/2025 18:43

There's a difference between a man who is complimentary and really likes you and one who is controlling. I think you know in your gut that there's something odd about him. I dated a guy once who was like this, he said all these things he's saying to you but after a few dates he was telling me he didn't like my outfit and suggesting other things for me to wear, said my jewellery was tacky, needed to do my make up differently. He was very direct in the way he spoke, he was Italian so I'm not sure if some was a culture clash but when I ended it he got creepy.

GentlemanJay · 22/07/2025 19:09

He sounds nuts. Look up Love Bombing.

SparklyGlitterballs · 22/07/2025 19:17

Good grief he sounds completely nuts! The fact he keeps proclaiming you're "his" is worrying. The not wearing a condom would be a 'no' for me, without all the other madness. I'd be running a mile from this one.

PinotPony · 22/07/2025 19:31

Why the need to post this in three separate topics? I call BS.

NinaOakley · 22/07/2025 19:33

Omg! Get out of there!

mrandmrsrobinson · 22/07/2025 20:12

Passport hunter

Fiery30 · 22/07/2025 20:32

So you had unprotected sex with him? This all sounds very scary and odd. Not sure why you even think it's normal. At your age, surely you know better.

elliesmummy19 · 22/07/2025 21:34

He sounds absolutely deranged and dangerous. I’d be creeped out if my actual husband of many years send me even a few messages like this. You need to block him.

Missj25 · 22/07/2025 21:45

Gymbunny2025 · 22/07/2025 18:20

A few red flags? He sounds utterly terrifying. Does he know where you live? Can you block on absolutely everything? I’d not delete anything and keep evidence just in case.

I hope it goes ok

I’m with Gymbunny on this one …
He sounds so fucking creepy !!!!!

Chonkadoodle · 22/07/2025 21:51

In the nicest possible way you need to work on your self confidence and self esteem. A few hours of attention to give yourself a little boost and now you’ve got a creep all over you. Thank God he lives far away. This isn’t flattering, cute or sexy, he’s a danger to you and your children. Block and report to police if he knows where you live.

MsDDxx · 22/07/2025 23:08

Being generous there MAY be a few cultural clashes here. Maybe 😂

He is a bit full on isn’t he 😂.

Listen to what your instincts are telling you. That’s what they’re for and we don’t take enough notice of them.

Andrea1991 · 03/08/2025 23:57

Don't be fooled by those who buy you with gossip and compliments. You have two children to protect, and first and foremost, protect yourself. You're young and attractive for that very reason. You deserve more, but above all, be clear-headed and choose. PS: The mere thought that he asked you for a child without knowing you and in a stable relationship is enough to raise a thousand questions. Do you have any idea what you're getting yourself into if you fall into weakness? I'll tell you: only problems... protect your children. They have nothing to do with it. They're already having their own problems in the relationship with your ex. I think asking someone you don't know for a child is irresponsible and disrespectful. If you just need attention or sex, I don't think you're lacking opportunities. Stay away from problems. You have your children to raise, they have nothing to do with it. And you need to stay calm.

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 04/08/2025 04:01

Oh my... Please block this bloke.
None of this is healthy.
Please protect your kids!

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