Like minded people

[perfectpistashio]

DH (48) and I (51) have been together 25 years, I’d had quite a lot of experience when we met, him less so. We’ve always had mismatched sex drives. Now in a place where we agree we/I can look elsewhere. Ideally I’d like to find like minded people (I’m bi, or as I now realise, pan) who are not cheating on their partners. I’m
looking for advice on how to go about this and where to look? TIA

Fabswingers and Feeld are often recommended on here. I have ventured on neither so can’t advise beyond that!

Thank you 🙏

(M) here…
I’m on fab and am happy to hold your “metaphorical” hand and show you round..

Thank you!

Male here as well, whatever site you use, don't drop your normal behavior standards just because it's a sex site, if you'd never normally accept rude, one line messages or people making little effort, don't engage with them.

I found on Fab, for every nice person who put some effort into there messages and was polite, they'd be 5 who was happy conversing in text speak or seemed to live chaotic lives and that for me is off-putting. Hints of drug use in people's profiles was another big red flag for me.

Fab also seems to have a spike in activity, Friday and Saturday nights and I suspect people have a few drinks and forget how to behave.

Not putting you off, go in with your eyes open, it can feel exciting , for a while it opened up an outlet for me, but be prepared to wade though a lot of dross.

@perfectpistashio good luck.. Iv had successes through Fab, Tind… but advice is be careful and make sure you meet in public surroundings first ✊🏿

SwingHub is a great app for finding like minded people, many married with consent!