Birthday treat Weekend away

[Rach19t]

Hi

it’s my partners 40th birthday coming up
I am taking him for a night away and I was hoping to treat him to a really nice night and then back to the room with some sex toys.
He has only just started to use them and mainly uses them when we have been drinking. I think the whole thing makes him nervous.
He will only ever really use a dildo on me but I was hoping to spice this up with other things.
can anyone please help me or point me in the right direction on this.

Any bundles or links would really be appreciated 🤞🏼

Thanks all 💕

Do you mean for you or him? Or both!

@Rach19t hi, how confident is DH when it comes to sex? standard or adventurous

It can be for both of us as he enjoys it both ways.

sex is pretty standard unless he’s had a drink which again I think is a confidence thing.
we have been together 7 years but I think before he was so used to just been very vanilla or with one night stands so was just what ever then it’s done kinda thing.

also would not do anything anal for him at all. He won’t let me go anywhere near

It’s hard to say as obviously you don’t want to scare him!

Why not get some sexy lingerie for you that you can surprise him with when you get back to the room? Then maybe some (Velcro) handcuffs and a wand that can be used on you, plus an attachment that can be used on him?

That’s great thank you!
I have got some underwear and a wand.
I’ll also look at the handcuffs thank you.

I might just bite the bullet and order a box of stuff.
if he doesn’t like it at least I have tried? He may try again then later on maybe?

it’s a minefield isn’t it! xx

Get something like a weekend away kit from Love Honey, then see if he relaxes enough to use it.

@Rach19t take charge, show him how much pleasurable it is to explore each others sexuality, who knows once he expects pleasures from cuffed, blindfolded etc and you using toys , Iguarantee he will be putty in your hands! What you got to lose for trying, p.s. sexy stylish lingerie works wonders, esp with heels and tht wand😉✊🏿

Try a paddle or a light whip