Do you give HJs or BJs as the main act?

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Why one or other? And how often as main act?

Why are those the only 2 options as the "main act"?

And what even is a main act?!

Everyone talks about how often they have sex. But handjobs and BJs common too. Meant not just for foreplay but to finish

The HJ quiz is back 😂

for us I would normally only do a HJ or BJ as a stand alone act (so not foreplay or mutual pleasuring) if he asked for it. Maybe once every month or 2? He’s more likely to ask for a HJ rather than BJ though I’d say. Possibly because when I ask him to return the favour it often turns into 69! Also I think he loves watching the look on my face when I give him a HJ

DH thinks most are giving BJs all the time 🙄

Hubby prefers a BJ to a HJ, but most BJs end as a HJ if we are not having some kind of penetrative sex (which is 90% of the time) cause he doesn’t really cum from a BJ very often

Neither is the main act for us, penetrateive sex both finishing at the same time inside her is the only main act for us. BJ’s for foreplay and occasionally just randomly when wandering around the house, handjobs a rarity, as there a lot of other things we’d both prefer!

Very rarely a main act for us, but always as part of sex in general.

Only once recently did I give a HJ as a main act, and before then not for years. Like I said, both HJs and BJs form part of sex virtually every time.

HJ only. We do them kinda a lot bc DH is higher drive

DH was more right than me! 👀

We (both) try to have a main act night once a week. Probably like your DH I would love it every night 😁
BJ rather than HJ as I can't finish that way (circumcised)

Also I think he loves watching the look on my face when I give him a HJ

No doubt. I had an ex who was very skilled at HJs and also titwanks. Watching her face as she did it was a huge part of the turn on.

It's either/ or for us.... sometimes I ask him what he'd prefer, sometimes I just go with the flow. We always use oil with a HJ though. I adore doing either, so it just depends if one of us is in the mood for a particular one.

He rarely finishes inside me, he finds that really difficult. Despite that, we have a brilliant and frequent sex life.

I think it’s that bitter woman expression I have 😂