Struggling to "grip" him when he's inside me. Advice? Tips?

[julyjulia]

Just this really.
I find myself too wet and the condom he's wearing too wet and "slippery" (lol - can't think of another word!). The wetness and slippiness makes it hard for me to "get a grip" (hehe) when he's inside. How is the best way to be able to grip and squeeze him when it's all so wet?

Maybe a sitting position where you wrap your legs around him and grind him instead of thrusting! Good luck!

Erm…do you need to grip him? Am I doing it wrong?? 😆

Look up pelvic floor exercises
Takes a while but you can improve and control the muscles down there x

Hey , ofcourse it’s new to you, but Atleast you’re wet moist, clinch your cheeks , grind him…if girths an issue for DH , try a cock sleeve….but have fun finding out ✊🏿

What Reidwood said - its not you - its his girth. Prior to my amazing wife giving birth she was struggling to grip me and at that point neither of us could feel much sensation. After birth and with all the kegel exercises which she was religious about, it was even more evident. We both looked into it and it turned out my girth is super thin (yes we measured together to find out) - and after dealing with that from an ego point of view (for me) and for her to say its ok we will work it out - we turned it into fun and used a really good cock sleeve as Reidwood suggested. Its worth getting a really good one that is life-like for you and hubby so that he can feel through it too. Then you will both realise what it should be like and start enjoying it. Good luck and be open to communication if he is too.

Hello,
Try sitting position? where he places his hands under you and pulls you in whil you grind.

Hope this helps

She hasn't mentioned there's anything wrong with his girth?