Watching married couples making love

[CuriousCouple]

Hi,

We are a secure, established female and male couple in our late 40’s. We have good jobs and grown up children.
We enjoy a good and varied sex life. We experiment and use a variety of toys to help satisfy one another.
We have recently been talking and exploring about watching another couple make love. We don’t want to swap partners but would like the space to touch each other while watching and if we feel comfortable and confident, we would like to touch the other couple. Does anybody have experience with this? We are looking for tips on how to initiate it. Thanks in advance x

You could go to a Swingers club, if that was something you felt comfortable to do. Some have rooms specifically for watching, and group play rooms too where you could watch. Alternatively you could go onto a site like FabSwingers and state in your profile what you're looking for. Feeld is an alternative dating app which could also be of use too. You can be open on there about what you're looking for sexually. Good luck!

Thank you, fabswingers seems the logical step

You might also think about starting out doing a video swap

Hi, this is something we as a couple do fairly often. It is sensual and an aspect that makes our sex life quite vibrant and fun.

Good luck.

I would strongly advice against doing this with people you've not met and have only found online.
If you are going to do it, just ask yourself if you would be comfortable with the video that you are sharing being widely and publicly available on the internet to everyone. Once you share videos they are no longer under your control. If you are going for it, make sure no faces, identifying tattoos, home bedrooms are in the video.

This! Even small items of jewellery can give away who you are.

100%. I have a very distinctive engagement ring 🙄

This is not something l would get involved with; it all sounds too pornish. But l’m at a loss to understand why, should any couples come forward, they have to be married.

We like that it’s pornish. That’s a major turn on for us both. We have reached a point where we want more than watching couples on the mainstream porn websites. We can’t find anything dedicated to real couples (we welcome any website suggestions.)
as for a married couple- we feel it’s safer and more intimate

Hi we used Swingershub. Its a very secure, 100% verified user base, strict rules etc. We found a couple that were up for it and it was a fun experience.

Sorry typo - app is Swinghub

“It’s very secure” - So was M&S and the co-op!

This is very true! It’s put me off online shopping, let alone anything else.

Not that I’m considering it- just interested. Is this 2 couples camming? Or content uploaded? Is it free?

agree with pp it seems very very risky!!

in answer to OP I assumed this was what OF was for?! But obviously you pay

There was a car accident on the motorway. Never gonna drive again.

Discretion is not required for driving.

Have you deleted your banking apps then? Cancelled and closed accounts and mortgages etc?
closed your energy accounts, closed your water bills and council tax?
Gone off grid?

Discretion on those secure servers is also essential, so I assume you have closed it all following a hack of a retail shop.

Having to get your credit card to do a chargeback on a fraudulent transaction and getting issued a new card is a different kettle of fish than having your sex life uploaded to Pornhub IMO.

Wow, thanks for the complete perpendicular turn

When my ex FWB and I used to go to clubs, we always played in open rooms. Often alongside or near others. We never engaged with others. We were happy together but enjoyed watching and being watched. Just be ready with a “ no thank you, we are just enjoying each other tonight” response for if someone makes an unwanted approach.