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How often do you masturbate?

82 replies

Valero · 07/04/2025 12:50

Ive always masturbated fairly regularly maybe a few times a week and no issues, I find it helps me last longer when having sex, helps with stress etc. always private when nobody is home.
Wife can sometimes get annoyed because if she wants a ‘quickie’ it might take 15-20minutes of sex to cum which I don’t see as an issue but she says she prefers a couple minutes and it’s done.
Keen to get other peoples opinions on this?

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yorkshireteabagman · 07/05/2025 07:04

It was definitely more frequent before my wife started to WFH 😄 Maybe 1-2 times a week now

SaraSunny · 07/05/2025 09:32

SaraSunny · 06/05/2025 22:10

It varies but I'd probably say 5 or 6 times a week. I like to do it at night mostly.

Never on a Tuesday though 😏

Reidwood · 07/05/2025 10:01

@Valero everyone has different needs, I’m like some who commented, hypersexed, I have to relieve in some form everyday, whether at work or home, if my partner is around then we ll find a way for mutual pleasure, which usually results in full blown sex, but each to their own! ✊🏿 don’t have hang ups abt it, embrace the pleasure!

everywhichway · 07/05/2025 11:22

SaraSunny · 07/05/2025 09:32

Never on a Tuesday though 😏

Come on - what happens on Tuesdays then?? 😊

Reidwood · 07/05/2025 14:01

@SaraSunny tues for you or your man to recover?😜

JJZ · 07/05/2025 15:02

Quite a lot, it only takes a minute or two at the most as of course, I know exactly what I like 😉 I definitely prefer sex, but it’s a means to an end when the urge takes you 😁

SaraSunny · 08/05/2025 21:55

everywhichway · 07/05/2025 11:22

Come on - what happens on Tuesdays then?? 😊

My lips are sealed sorry! 🤐

SaraSunny · 08/05/2025 21:57

Reidwood · 07/05/2025 14:01

@SaraSunny tues for you or your man to recover?😜

Something like that!

SaraSunny · 08/05/2025 22:36

SaraSunny · 07/05/2025 09:32

Never on a Tuesday though 😏

In fact, if the day of the week starts with a 'T' I'm not a happy bunny!

everywhichway · 08/05/2025 22:54

SaraSunny · 08/05/2025 22:36

In fact, if the day of the week starts with a 'T' I'm not a happy bunny!

Having a quiet night tonight then?

Reidwood · 09/05/2025 10:03

@SaraSunny is days T…linked to trauma in past?

AtYourPleasure · 09/05/2025 11:06

I'm single but it's very mood dependent for me. If I'm stressed or anxious or sad about something.... either I don't attempt it or I can try but generally it won't get me anywhere.

I've had periods of doing it everyday and then going weeks without.

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MikeOxlong69 · 11/05/2025 01:13

Every day without fail lol

user1471798424 · 24/05/2025 23:21

Most nights I would pleasure myself. I sleep better when I do 🤗

everywhichway · 24/05/2025 23:29

user1471798424 · 24/05/2025 23:21

Most nights I would pleasure myself. I sleep better when I do 🤗

Better let you get to it then! 😉

user1471798424 · 24/05/2025 23:32

It's Saturday night - hopefully DH can sort that tonight 😜

Tinkerbell7777 · 24/05/2025 23:39

Most nights here as well…husband misses out as he falls asleep watching tv every night.

user1471798424 · 24/05/2025 23:40

Snooze you lose as they say 😂

Smithey885 · 25/05/2025 15:03

Normally a couple times a day, regardless if I’ve had sex or not 😬

my implant has allowed me to get hard whenever I want so I guess I’ve taken advantage of it!

And for the men who use masturbation as a reason to not be quick - it’s very easy to train your brain. Before my implant, when I had bad PE, I used masturbation as therapy if you like, to control myself and last longer - it also works the opposite way.

SportGirl · 26/05/2025 10:46

I masturbate most days but then again I got a very high sex drive

GigiAnnna · 26/05/2025 11:13

I did it 4 times yesterday ( in one long session), then later on had sex. It was an orgasmic, blissful day.

Reidwood · 26/05/2025 17:16

@GigiAnnna @SportGirl , I guess we are lucky to have an intense libido and freely mastubate daily , sometimes several times in day, even if we have had sex..but we’re the exception to most . Keep enjoying ✊🏿

andsweetwhitewine · 28/05/2025 16:26

@StarlightLady I agree about them not being the same. I enjoy my MeTime, usually before sleep most days. Haven't had full sex for about 3 years, but happy with myself.

Reidwood · 28/05/2025 20:44

@StarlightLady you say your happy with self pleasure, am I wrong to assume DP has lost interest or sex is not a priority for him?

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