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Wants to finish on my face

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TheSassyTraybake · 22/03/2025 10:12

As the thread title says - DP wants to finish on my face.

Not sure how I feel about it? I’m fine with him finishing other places so why does this feel different?

Obviously not going to do anything I’m not comfortable with but does anyone have any experience of this that would stop me feeling a bit odd about it?

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PTown · 22/03/2025 10:20

My personal belief is that it’s quite derogatory, so it’s a no from me. Did he say why he wants it?

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TheSassyTraybake · 22/03/2025 10:27

PTown · 22/03/2025 10:20

My personal belief is that it’s quite derogatory, so it’s a no from me. Did he say why he wants it?

No just said it’s something he’d like to try. I’m open to trying most things so can’t understand why this feels different.

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PTown · 22/03/2025 10:31

TheSassyTraybake · 22/03/2025 10:27

No just said it’s something he’d like to try. I’m open to trying most things so can’t understand why this feels different.

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For me, at least, it “feels different” as you say, because it has belittling undertones. I guess you could ask him and hear him out—then you could make your decision. Your gut is telling you something here, and in my personal experience, there’s a reason to not ignore your gut feeling.

Hamps1234 · 22/03/2025 10:37

If you agree make sure you have your eyes closed when he cums as it really stings if you get it in your eyes.

SparklyGlitterballs · 22/03/2025 10:42

Does he watch porn? A lot of that will be finishing on the face. Probably hoping too that you'll have your mouth open so he can cum on your mouth/tongue, and then you're supposed to lick and lap it up. Not for me 🤢

Aishabibi · 22/03/2025 11:32

It’s definitely a porn thing… I’ve had it done to me a couple of times and didn’t like it. I’ll second the closing eyes as it really, really stings

Gymbunny2025 · 22/03/2025 11:58

I enjoy it, especially with mouth open. We don’t do it often and it would normally be me that suggests it. I have to want it iyswim. It is a bit of a pain to clean up if it goes in my hair. I think I’ve had a bit in my eye one. Didn’t sting at all but I did notice my eye was a bit red afterwards.

GigiAnnna · 22/03/2025 13:45

Yuck.

AlexandrinaH · 22/03/2025 15:13

Hamps1234 · 22/03/2025 10:37

If you agree make sure you have your eyes closed when he cums as it really stings if you get it in your eyes.

And if it’s gets in your eyes, they’ll be red for days 😬😂

Postman007 · 22/03/2025 15:28

Have done this at the start when I first got with my wife and it would normally be her giving me a blowjob and she would keep her mouth open and tongue out for me to cum. She would always say don’t cum near her eyes aswell 😂. It is sexy and a turn on but definitely a porn type fantasy. Unfortunately way past this stage now 😂

Sadcafe · 22/03/2025 17:15

Happened once by complete accident in the early days of relationship, DW made it quite clear she didn’t like it, never happened again. It is typically a porn thing, probably where he’s got it from

StarlightLady · 22/03/2025 17:58

It would make me feel like a lamp post! So from me it’s a big no!

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TheSassyTraybake · 22/03/2025 18:45

Still can’t figure out why I’m absolutely fine with it on my boobs for example but just not my face!

Having a wine or 2, might let him try later, if I don’t like it don’t need to do it again!

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smithey855 · 22/03/2025 22:12

Face is much more degrading than boobs imo, like slapping your boobs or bum is much more acceptable than slapping your face..

unfortunately nothing comes out of me so I can’t finish anywhere 😂

Gymbunny2025 · 22/03/2025 22:30

I don’t personally see it as degrading at all (although totally understand why people do.). Maybe slightly submissive. But it’s not really any different to me finishing on his face imo 😂

Catullus5 · 23/03/2025 00:46

I would feel different to me too: faces are what make us unique.

I think i only enjoy doing that if DW especially asked me. Her enjoyment would be a turn on. Without that, I would feel like I was making her an object and so wouldn't want to.

Might that be why it feels different, OP?

MrsBrollie · 23/03/2025 05:58

Gymbunny2025 · 22/03/2025 22:30

I don’t personally see it as degrading at all (although totally understand why people do.). Maybe slightly submissive. But it’s not really any different to me finishing on his face imo 😂

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I agree with this post, I find it submissive but not degrading. I don’t particularly enjoy it but that’s mainly a texture things, I don’t like things on my face in general. Hubby asks for it every now and then, sometimes I’ll say yes. Much prefer it inside me. It’s 100% a porn thing but that doesn’t automatically mean it’s bad imho.

NCForThatForumM · 23/03/2025 06:23

I'd have thought it would be worth it for the touching, enthusiastic gratitude.

Gymbunny2025 · 23/03/2025 06:52

TheSassyTraybake · 22/03/2025 18:45

Still can’t figure out why I’m absolutely fine with it on my boobs for example but just not my face!

Having a wine or 2, might let him try later, if I don’t like it don’t need to do it again!

How did it go?!

SparklyGlitterballs · 23/03/2025 06:57

smithey855 · 22/03/2025 22:12

Face is much more degrading than boobs imo, like slapping your boobs or bum is much more acceptable than slapping your face..

unfortunately nothing comes out of me so I can’t finish anywhere 😂

Now this is something I've never really understood - why is slapping a woman acceptable in any way during sex? Would a woman slap her husband round the face/bum/balls during sex?

StarlightLady · 23/03/2025 08:32

SparklyGlitterballs · 23/03/2025 06:57

Now this is something I've never really understood - why is slapping a woman acceptable in any way during sex? Would a woman slap her husband round the face/bum/balls during sex?

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It isn’t acceptable! It has nothing to do with passion but everything to do with control and takes sharing out of sex.

Gymbunny2025 · 23/03/2025 08:41

Totally agree with you both. Slapping boobs or face sounds AWFUL

smithey855 · 23/03/2025 08:46

SparklyGlitterballs · 23/03/2025 06:57

Now this is something I've never really understood - why is slapping a woman acceptable in any way during sex? Would a woman slap her husband round the face/bum/balls during sex?

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It’s only acceptable if they want to be slapped. The face is taking it to the extreme, although one of my exes loved it - and loved slapping me back. Most of the women I’ve been with have liked their bum being slapped, so I don’t think that its that unusual.

PTown · 23/03/2025 08:54

smithey855 · 23/03/2025 08:46

It’s only acceptable if they want to be slapped. The face is taking it to the extreme, although one of my exes loved it - and loved slapping me back. Most of the women I’ve been with have liked their bum being slapped, so I don’t think that its that unusual.

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I must be in the minority of women then…

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TheSassyTraybake · 23/03/2025 09:01

He absolutely loved it! Can’t say it was my favourite thing to do but didn’t hate it. Was great seeing how much he enjoyed though.

Won’t be doing it every time but maybe an annual birthday treat or something!

Didn’t feel degraded at all but anyone who does feel like that obviously shouldn’t do it and their partner should respect that.

Anyone who is unsure like me I’d say give it a go - it’s not as bad/weird as I expected.

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