Ok so this is the situation. I am with a relatively new partner and we've taken things slowly so only just recently got fully physical. When having PIV/A sex, I've noticed he takes things very gingerly and slowly. Used to think it was out of consideration for me, but had a sort of conversation with him the other night and it seems he might find it hard to go quickly for the sake of his own comfort, Wondered had anyone else experienced this or are there any steps we can take.