Fabswingers

[summerbeaches]

I recently saw a thread on here about someone who had recently joined fabswingers & wanted a hand hold/guidance. Annoyingly I can’t find it now!

anyway, I’m posting because I’ve been on the site for 8months and happy to share what I’ve learnt.
its not easy to navigate, and I came off for a few months because of abuse (including racism) I got off guys.

I’m really interested to know what you’ve learnt

• most guys don’t even read your profile. They get angry if you don’t pander to them. Also they do not stop messaging
• its worth signing up as a site supporter (one off payment, discreet). It means to can use filters to see who can contact you and stop your profile showing on search engines like Google.
• delete and block early on
• even when they send face pics - it’s usually of their much better looking friend
• use telegram to communicate (hide your phone number)
• video call early on so that you’re not wasting your time

Did you actually find somebody you were prepared to meet up with ?

I had my first meet with a woman last week. It’s something I’ve wanted to try for ages.
found 2 guys for MMF and we’re meeting next month.
im very fussy about hygiene, safety and having good chemistry, so it takes a lot for me to meet someone.

I'm on there. I've made it work for me. Met my best friends on there, with who I've never been any where near them sex wise.

Please don't tar us all with the same brush. It's like the "Wild West" on there, but if you find the diamonds in the rough which I have been lucky enough to do, it will make all the shit worth it.

I'm on there too. Definitely you need to spend time sorting through the crap! Not had any meets yet, but will keep persevering!

Some very good tips here!

It's very easy to set it up so you can only be contacted by someone who meets your own requirements (age/sex etc) so it's worth doing!

Have not renewed my site supporter as I have been away, but this is a reminder to do it now I am back!

Like other sites even of a non sexual nature there are some utter nutjobs on there, but can also confirm a bit of perseverance can give good results.

The ladies have their pick on fab, enjoy ;-)

Hey. It might have been me and my husband?
We have met two couples from 3f or sdc and then also went to le boudoir all a lot of fun!! I'm 32 he is 38 and we have been married ten years
I found it to be brilliant experience

I'm all ears if anyone has any tips for couples?

We've got a decent profile and pics but don't seem to attract a lot of interest beyond one liners or people that just want same room same partners. Not that there's anything wrong with watching and being watched but it's just not our bag.

It’s grim on there - I just don’t get how people can live like that!!

couple decent meets but an awful lot of time wasters.
photos taken years before nothing like them now. good to meet in a cafe pub etc before then you can make an excuse not to mention safety
people dont read profile if you say bi men and women only you will get gay men or straight men not what you ask for
its like a lot of sites some good some bad