My partner is having this procedure done just after Christmas, I have 2 children with him and he has one from a previous relationship. We have discussed this at length and neither of us want any more, however, tonight he came to me and said ‘what if we change our mind?’, I explained no way was I going to change my mind, I have 2 very close together and I don’t want to have another. I am concerned that he might be having second thoughts and of course I won’t force him to go through with it because I will have to have the implant, although the last time I had it I was incredibly ill on it, or I can explore other options. After we finished that topic, he started to share other concerns like pain, maybe he’ll get an infection in his balls, it seemed that he was trying to back out, which again is fine, because at the end of the day, his body, his choice.
Anyone else had experience with this?