Porn history

[anonymouslycurious]

if porn consumption is not an issue in your relationship. If you were to stumble upon your partners search history.

would you be happier if their history was similar to your body type (reality) or different (fantasy)

Tbh I wouldn't be happy full stop but if you was fine with it then I don't think you would be bothered either way

I suppose it depends.
If he was looking at women who have all the qualities that I'd love to have but can't, things I'm very insecure about, then that would probably bother me.
However, if you've decided in your relationship that porn is okay, then basically this is a problem you need to deal with yourself. It boils down to your own insecurity. That's not your husbands problem to fix.

I know hubby watches porn and I know the ladies look nothing like me, but it doesn’t bother me at all, porn is all fantasy and I’d be naive to think I meet all his fantasies, just as I know the sex acts he watches are things I would never do.

Body type wouldn't be an issue in general, women in porn tend to have a certain 'look' that is a million miles away from how I look anyway. I would judge him if he was watching certain types of porn though (extremes of age/ body type, fetishising a particular race, CNC etc)

Porn watching is not an issue in our marriage, we have both been watching it since we were younger and still do. I don't mind what he watches, normally it's lesbians it seems and and doesn't mind my usual porn types.

I wouldn't read anything into it and hope he wouldn't read anything into mine. It's nothing to do with what I'd be interested in IRL and I'm very happy with him.

I very much doubt my husband would be giving any thought to the specific body type of the women in the porn he was watching in all honesty.
And he'd have to deliberately go out of his way to find my body type - I'd be extremely surprised if the Google history read 'Middle aged, overweight, grey haired women who haven't shaved their legs since summer' to be fair - it's not exactly the normal body type found in porn.
But in all honesty, if I was going to be indulging in complete fantasy, I'd probably be fantasising about someone with a different body type to him so I'd have to have pretty big double standards to be bothered.