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Hubby wants to watch me with another man

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SecretRoses45 · 29/11/2024 19:52

Where would be a good place to find someone? I don’t really like fab swingers, I have had a little previous experience of the site and it feels a bit like a meat market 😬. We would like to build up a connection before meeting and would like to make it a regular thing with the same guy if it all works out ok. I want mostly vanilla sex but enjoy some certain non-vanilla activities.

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JMSA · 30/11/2024 07:14

How do YOU feel about it?
Sorry, I'm sure you're probably fine, but I was just struck by the title of your post!

Angela59 · 30/11/2024 07:33

PM me
know what he’d like and have the relevant link

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SecretRoses45 · 30/11/2024 16:57

JMSA · 30/11/2024 07:14

How do YOU feel about it?
Sorry, I'm sure you're probably fine, but I was just struck by the title of your post!

Oh yes, I should have probably mentioned I’m completely on board with it! Sorry!

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MaybeTimeforacareerchange · 30/11/2024 18:43

Hi Secretroses,

Me and DW have done this a couple of times through fab. You sound like you have made up your mind about fab but I thought I'd offer our perspective. We had several let downs after talking on the phone for weeks and having a social meet. We got let down again last night so said fuck it and got in contact with a guy on fab through the looking to meet today criteria. We had a guy in our hotel room within a couple of hours and had a lot of fun!

DW was fed up of spending all the time of getting to know someone only for them to bail at the last minute.

Other sites? We have not tried any but figure they are all much of a muchness. I have heard that clubs are a lot better especially as a couple but we have yet to go to one yet.

Good luck!

PaulRevere · 01/12/2024 13:17

Feeld?
Tinder etc if you are honest and upfront as well.

Thenewguy · 02/12/2024 14:47

MaybeTimeforacareerchange · 30/11/2024 18:43

Hi Secretroses,

Me and DW have done this a couple of times through fab. You sound like you have made up your mind about fab but I thought I'd offer our perspective. We had several let downs after talking on the phone for weeks and having a social meet. We got let down again last night so said fuck it and got in contact with a guy on fab through the looking to meet today criteria. We had a guy in our hotel room within a couple of hours and had a lot of fun!

DW was fed up of spending all the time of getting to know someone only for them to bail at the last minute.

Other sites? We have not tried any but figure they are all much of a muchness. I have heard that clubs are a lot better especially as a couple but we have yet to go to one yet.

Good luck!

My wife and I have also done this however with more success.
my wife met someone almost straight away.
they have been seeing each other for about four years.
the one thing I would say, if anyone is considering try it… this can get complicated

PinotPony · 04/12/2024 20:12

I’d recommend Killing Kittens. Really nice community of ENM and kink folks. You can scroll and message people, or go to a social to meet people in a non-play setting, or jump right into a party.

There’s a Mumsnet group on there too if you want to join. Send me a connection and I’ll add you.

FAB is great for finding a quick fuck but, in my experience, it’s a bit grim. You have to wade through loads of unintelligent losers sending you dick pics. Present company excluded of course!

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SecretRoses45 · 04/12/2024 21:47

PinotPony · 04/12/2024 20:12

I’d recommend Killing Kittens. Really nice community of ENM and kink folks. You can scroll and message people, or go to a social to meet people in a non-play setting, or jump right into a party.

There’s a Mumsnet group on there too if you want to join. Send me a connection and I’ll add you.

FAB is great for finding a quick fuck but, in my experience, it’s a bit grim. You have to wade through loads of unintelligent losers sending you dick pics. Present company excluded of course!

Thankyou so much @PinotPony ! This is really useful info, I just googled ENM and that describes our situation perfectly- hadn’t heard of this label before.
I will have a look tomorrow 😀

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