Hi all I have a problem I’m really embarrassed about.
i had been married for many years and we’ve now separated last year. I have been seeing a guy for a few months but it’s long distant.
for as long as I can remember sex has been uncomfortable for me, sometimes bleed a little after. I didn’t really have sex with my husband.
so first time sex with my new guy was ok, hurt abit and tint bit of blood afterwards.
second time there was mass amounts of blood during and after.
what I experience when I have sex it when his penis goes to go in, it basically won’t and it feels like there’s a blockage - best way to describe it.
then hurts for a few minutes until it’s in, then it’s fine 2 I can orgasm etc.
thing is after sex I couldn’t have sex a second time then for days because it’s like I’m swollen and very sore.
im always smelly down there and also recently feels like I can’t release all my urine when I go to wee
ive had STI tests, tried BV antibiotics and thrush medications.
smear tests I can’t have unless I have a general anesthetic like I did on my last one!
I feel I can’t go the dr because I can’t have a physical examination as I become really really tense
many thanks to all who have read