Too wet during sex

[Brimfulofasha21]

Hey, so I'm I think in peri menopause. 39
Just wondering if anyone else had this issue. Basically I get very wet and turned on during sex/foreplay and it's almost at times too much wetness. Anything help anyone? Or is it put up and shut up? Tia x

Shh. There is no such thing as “too wet”. After 2 kids and a 20 year marriage, I worried about this stuff too. What if I’m too wet?! What if he can’t feel it?!

Bollocks. Every guy I’ve slept with since my divorce has been utterly delighted about how wet I am. (Well, perhaps except the guy who got it in his eye!)

it’s a good thing. Stop worrying. x

I concur with @PinotPony wet is good! I know you can feel a bit self conscious, but all the men I've known love it and it feels great.

Omg I love this Pinot Pony!!
I'm having sex with my first post separation guy (really long marriage too) next weekend and I too have been freaking! Not just wetness, general mid 40s anatomical stuff having had kids etc. then part of me doesn't care at all

As a guy all i can say is wetter the better. Relax and enjoy it, your partner will.

Yes, I totally agree, far preferable for all concerned to vaginal dryness.

Enjoy, and be as loud as you like 😀

i am always so wet it's crazy

How fabulous!

@valentinka31 is there something that triggers that in you?

love

thank you yes I am beginning to realise I am very lucky in this, I don't know about other women though, surely most of them are similar I think

Post menopause it will probably get drier. 80 per cent do.

We have sex towels as sometimes if I’m too wet it can be less enjoyable for me. DH has never had any complaints though!!

No, he won't. 😊

My partner is 52, in full menopause and on HRT, her sex drive this through the roof and she gets wet with the slightest foreplay.

it’s fantastic 😀

If there was a "green with envy" emoji, I would put it here. Enjoy!

Guy here. I would say don’t worry and just enjoy. Most guys would be super happy that you are so into it and of course it makes it better for all