Boyfriend doesn’t want sex

[Tiff1247]

Suppose to be trying for a baby which we both want. Missed ovulation every month makes excuses as to why he doesn’t want sex, in the past 5 months we have had sex twice and one of the times am sure he used a viagra pill as he couldn’t cum. He will not speak about it at all

Are you sure you BOTH want a baby? It sounds like he is having doubts. The fact he won't speak about it in itself speaks volumes!

Viagra doesn't stop a man cumming. If he didn't cum, it was for some other reason.

Somehow, you need to get him to open up about his honest feelings.

Has he generally avoided sex or just whilst you've been wanting to conceive?

Are you sure he really wants to father a child?

Doesn’t sound like him wanting a child to me. Sorry OP but many men think of sex without considering the consequences (sad but true), in this case l think he is doing the oposite.

Avoiding it all together not just the week of ovulation and he’s told me he does want another it’s so confusing

Actions speak louder than words... When my ex & I where TTC, we were at it like rabbits... Take from that what you will...

He doesn't want a baby op.

He doesn’t want a baby, and viagra doesn’t stop a man from cumming.

tell him you want to wait a bit before you try and conceive , take the pressure off him and see what changes. If he wants sex again there’s your answer.

if he doesn’t, then you unfortunately have deeper issues to sort out.

His actions don't match his words. Please don't have a baby with him until you both have had a calm and honest conversation about the future of your relationship. If he really isn't into you or having a child, it's not going to really change if you do get pregnant.

Agree with others. If you want to have kids you will be jumping your partner at every chance. If you don't you won't.