Resentment after Sex

[Cindy1990]

Hi Girls,
I am currently with someone who is super nice and very good in bed. However, every time we have sex, I would feel resentful the next day. I would also get these obsessive thoughts whether I shaved well, I was good enough, i smelled okay.

It would take me two days to return back to normal.

It is like I always look for approval.

Is this normal?

Sounds like you’re thinking,
”that was great sex but my need for affirmation and to have my insecurities quashed wasn’t met.”

Kind of conversation you need to have at a less emotionally charged time.

Cindy it is somewhat normal. Many ladies overthink during and particularly after. I’ve found communication is key and how you feel about the guy can help out your mind at ease. The guys bedside manner can be particularly helpful as everyone’s confidence levels are different.

Don’t forget many guys are thinking the same thing so don’t be too hard on yourself