Spicing up our sex life

[Baguetteaboutme]

Since having children our sex life has gone very vanilla but now the kids are abit older we are starting to get abit more time in bed together.
Wife loves watching porn and the general stuff but any advice or tips on how to spice things up again would be great but nothing too adventurous as wife isn’t really like that.

You probably need to have a chat with her first to see what she wants/doesn't want.

You've been a bit vague with "the general stuff" and "nothing too adventurous" so there's probably not much for us to go on.

Most extreme we have done has been my wife sleeping with another woman whilst we were together and me knowing. A few times we’ve had sex against a full length window when staying at hotels before which was quite adventurous I suppose.
general use of dildos and vibrators but no bigger than about 5/6inches. Sex positions typically missionary rather than anything else.
All of this was quite a while ago though and not within the last few years.