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Someone help....

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Emmac38 · 20/09/2024 02:05

Someone please help me before I loose my mind!!
My boyfriends a freak! We've been together 8 years and throughout the years I've found hidden sex toys he has, all anal toys and when I've found them he says he doesn't like anal it's just something he tried. The toys get discarded and then he buys more, and hides them again.
This time it's worse.... I've recently found out he's expecting a delivery.... Of women stockings, mens mesh body suits, more sex toys, male g string thongs and even a fucking cat tail!!!!
I'm disgusted, literally wanna throw up in my mouth.
I also think he's been wearing my underwear when I'm not around as they are always rolled in the draw like they have been worn and rolled off, it bugged me for ages until I figured it out.
Oh and also... I believe he's pissed in my shoe before...
I'm being 100% serious here, please help me I'm loosing my shit.

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ARealitycheck · 01/12/2024 23:31

Darla62 · 01/12/2024 20:13

The same thing has just happened to me.

How can anyone just "walk away" these days, especially at my age (61). I will lose the house and worse I have my little cat to think of who has a very happy life here.

I'm absolutely devestated, shocked and have now been staring into space for 15 hours.

I worked overtime, got let out early, drove home and there he was dressed in suspenders doing something on his computer in the brightly lit bed room..Every light in the house was on, a strange thing to come home to at 4am in the morning. The house reeked of sweat. I presume now he was talking to other perverts.

A month ago I found some knickers that were not mine and there was another incident so I am guessing he is becoming more bolder. I found a really old object in his cupboard, kind of rusty and I thought, "OMG, I think it's a dowser".

He said he had erection problems due to blood pressure tablets and bought loads of anal toys about six month ago, but now I understand he cannot get an erection because he is not attracted to me.

I don't deserve this, why didn't he tell me he was a tranny? He said he's been doing it for 30 years!!

Why bother with doing sex if it's so complicated, takes such a long time to "get off", you need to talk to swingers (from one of the above informative posts) and end up with anal diseases? (now I know why he needs the hemeroid cream and tomorrow is going to get a camera put into his rectum for, I am beginning to suspect, rectal cancer)

During the screaming match last night I said, "Are you not ashamed that tomorrow the doctors will find out how big your assh... is?" He said no, because all men and most women will have been shoving things into their a.."!

I know one shouldn't write or act in anger, and I don't know if my post will make sence, but I'm so upset. Thanks for listening, anyway

You can choose to be disgusted if you wish. In reality he has been masturbating nothing more. His choice of toys being anal is not that uncommon, especially when you consider the location of the male g-spot.

Wearing suspenders etc, OK a turn off for most women. But probably FAR more common than a lot of married women actually know.

Piles are not a consequence of anal masturbation, nor is there any risk of disease providing the toys are cleaned after use. If you suspect he has rectal cancer, that most definately isn't caused by masturbation and you were cruel with the comment about his Dr saying anything about his rectum.

Darla62 · 01/12/2024 23:44

Ah, so YOU are one.

Cruel? I haven't even got started yet.

ARealitycheck · 02/12/2024 00:02

@Darla62 There are varying statistics depending where you look. But it is universally agreed that women are far larger purchasers of sex toys than men. Why do you think Ann Summers became a high street brand.

The percentage of women of all ages who own at least one dildo or vibrator is estimated to be around 70-80%. Is it disgusting these women inserting these inside themselves? Unless you can say yes to that, then your opinion is moot.

Darla62 · 02/12/2024 08:00

ARealitycheck · 02/12/2024 00:02

@Darla62 There are varying statistics depending where you look. But it is universally agreed that women are far larger purchasers of sex toys than men. Why do you think Ann Summers became a high street brand.

The percentage of women of all ages who own at least one dildo or vibrator is estimated to be around 70-80%. Is it disgusting these women inserting these inside themselves? Unless you can say yes to that, then your opinion is moot.

Dude, time moved on. Women use the air pressure things these days, much more hygenic.

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