As the title says - I am unable to orgasm and I really want to!
34yrs old, female, been with DH for 10years.
Get to what I think is the brink then despite trying to concentrate on the feeling, the whole sensation just goes and then it can be a bit sore - clit stimulation. Brought myself a toy to try on my own and it's the same, just over quicker!
I have been convinced that it's my mind that stops me but i don't know how to overcome and now there is too much pressure on for it to happen. Or maybe it's something physical. I just don't know what to do next. Help!