Sex Club - advice

[Duckduckgoose24]

Hello! I'm off to Xtasia soon, first time and first time ever at a club. What should I wear? Do you tend to go in with say a dress on, but then get changed if you want to get involved? Any other tips for a newbie gratefully received. I'm going with my long term FWB.

Have no expectations at all, just plan for a nice fun night and whatever happens happens. You can wear a dress that is as revealing as you want to, take a couple of changes of clothes as the night goes on you can decide what to change into. Most of the time its a "normal" dress and then halfway through the night either getting naked or into lingerie. Have a look on the website as there might be a theme.

Have a conversation beforehand about boundaries, not what you want to happen but what you do NOT want to happen.

Go in, have the tour of the club then get yourself a drink, be friendly and chat to others, and just have a great time. If you have sex great, if you dont then also great, treat it as a recce for the next time you go.

Remember to be firm with others, if someone goes to touch you without your say so, say no firmly and they should back off, but most of the people Ive met there are very respectful and always ask first and are not pushy.

Do you know if you can bring a bag in with you? I know phones get checked in, but I was thinking lube and condoms etc in case we do get involved.

I recently went with my FWB. I had a few outfits with me. Initially went in a black dress and changed when I got there. Most women were wearing corsets, mesh dresses, pvc outfits. You can get a locker to put things in and pop back to get. Bring card or cash for drinks.

We had a great time. Enjoy!

Contact the club and find out if it's dress down on arrival. Some are. Have a great night.

Enjoy. Sounds immensely exciting.

I always take a little bag with condoms, lube, wet wipes, breath mints and jelly babies (for sharing!). Plus a larger bag to put spare clothes in. Many people take comfy clothes for getting home afterwards.

Usually wear a little black dress over sexy lingerie. I take a sheer robe so I can cover up without getting fully dressed.

As phones have to be packed away, I take my bank card in one of those runners' wristbands. I always have funds available, even when starkers!