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Steve78 · 31/07/2024 10:29

So I was asked to clear out the loft recently and found some old pictures of my wife in sexy underwear from when she was with an ex, as well as those I’ve found dick pics of her ex that she’s taken and pictures of them having sex.
weirdly it was a massive turn on seeing the pics and the thought of her having sex with someone else.
I haven’t mentioned it to her and don’t know if I should, slightly jealous as I’ve mentioned in the past (prior to finding the pics) that I’d love her to send pics to me every now and then just to help keep the excitement alive but she says she isn’t like that and has never sent anyone sexy pictures.

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BlackPanther75 · 31/07/2024 10:42

Wow. Interesting find!!

I’m not sure what the correct protocol is here!

i suppose the basic moral is what she did before she was with you is none of your business. She is free to tell you how much she wants about her previous relationships and to choose not to tell you other stuff.

However, as you’ve discovered these without meaning to, and through no sneakiness, it’s up to you whether to mention it.

if you choose to bring it up i would tread very carefully indeed. There’s the issue of her being dishonest with you about it, but then that’s probably just a white lie to protect herself and no real malice there.

like i say, if it happened before your relationship, and it didn’t do you any harm, she can keep her previous sex life to herself

PTown · 31/07/2024 10:47

Who asked you to clear out the loft? Your wife? I would maybe recommend putting the photos in an envelope, handing them to your wife, saying “I found these when I cleared out the loft and they look like they’re your personal belongings.” Then I would maybe exit the room so she has a chance to digest in private.

What kind of photos are we talking about here? Polaroids/printed on a PC or sent through the photo developer at the shop? 🙈

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Steve78 · 31/07/2024 10:50

BlackPanther75 · 31/07/2024 10:42

Wow. Interesting find!!

I’m not sure what the correct protocol is here!

i suppose the basic moral is what she did before she was with you is none of your business. She is free to tell you how much she wants about her previous relationships and to choose not to tell you other stuff.

However, as you’ve discovered these without meaning to, and through no sneakiness, it’s up to you whether to mention it.

if you choose to bring it up i would tread very carefully indeed. There’s the issue of her being dishonest with you about it, but then that’s probably just a white lie to protect herself and no real malice there.

like i say, if it happened before your relationship, and it didn’t do you any harm, she can keep her previous sex life to herself

It’s a strange one isn’t it, like I say im not bothered with what she’s done in the past, it’s actually sexy and a turn on tbh 😂.
Shes asked me about my past before and I’ve always been upfront but we can be quite different about our experiences.
luckily the dick pics show I’m not the smallest she’s been with which is always nice to know as she knows I’ve got a bit of a complex about size.

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Steve78 · 31/07/2024 11:00

PTown · 31/07/2024 10:47

Who asked you to clear out the loft? Your wife? I would maybe recommend putting the photos in an envelope, handing them to your wife, saying “I found these when I cleared out the loft and they look like they’re your personal belongings.” Then I would maybe exit the room so she has a chance to digest in private.

What kind of photos are we talking about here? Polaroids/printed on a PC or sent through the photo developer at the shop? 🙈

she asked me to clear out the loft and they were in a box with loads of other stuff.
they were photo developed so whoever in the shop printed them was in for a right treat at the time 😂 lucky bugger.
they were her laying on top of the bed posing in a thong stockings and suspenders and he has taken the pics from above, his dick which she would have taken the pic of and then some of him having sex with her from behind etc. I wish still dressed like that now 😂

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BlackPanther75 · 31/07/2024 11:29

Yeah mate i totally get that. Id love to find a similar stash showing my wife’s wilder days… i know she was pretty experienced and open sexually when she met me. But that fell off a cliff for her with monogamy.. id be excited tin hear some of her stories but alas… she wont say anything. It’s like she sees it as a totally different version of her which she cant fit with herself now

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Steve78 · 31/07/2024 12:06

BlackPanther75 · 31/07/2024 11:29

Yeah mate i totally get that. Id love to find a similar stash showing my wife’s wilder days… i know she was pretty experienced and open sexually when she met me. But that fell off a cliff for her with monogamy.. id be excited tin hear some of her stories but alas… she wont say anything. It’s like she sees it as a totally different version of her which she cant fit with herself now

Was a nice surprise I must admit 😂,
completely understand where you are coming from.
It is nice hearing stories from the past every now and then, she told me once the biggest she had and it was nearly twice the size of mine but she said it wasn’t enjoyable 😂

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BlackPanther75 · 31/07/2024 12:09

Steve78 · 31/07/2024 12:06

Was a nice surprise I must admit 😂,
completely understand where you are coming from.
It is nice hearing stories from the past every now and then, she told me once the biggest she had and it was nearly twice the size of mine but she said it wasn’t enjoyable 😂

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Nice 😂

i wouldn’t search the big 🦆 chart in here then 😲

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Steve78 · 31/07/2024 12:14

BlackPanther75 · 31/07/2024 12:09

Nice 😂

i wouldn’t search the big 🦆 chart in here then 😲

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What’s the chart?

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BlackPanther75 · 31/07/2024 12:20

Sorry chat 😂

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Steve78 · 31/07/2024 12:22

BlackPanther75 · 31/07/2024 12:20

Sorry chat 😂

😂😂

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K8ate · 31/07/2024 14:43

I do have intimate photos from past relationships but i wouldn’t my dh to find them and wouldn’t keep them in a place where they could be found by him.
My dh isn’t the largest i’ve had but i have no complaints at all. However, the feeling of fullness I’ve previously experienced isn’t quite the same to push me over the edge and it’s occasionally nice to look back to get me very excited.

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Steve78 · 31/07/2024 14:47

K8ate · 31/07/2024 14:43

I do have intimate photos from past relationships but i wouldn’t my dh to find them and wouldn’t keep them in a place where they could be found by him.
My dh isn’t the largest i’ve had but i have no complaints at all. However, the feeling of fullness I’ve previously experienced isn’t quite the same to push me over the edge and it’s occasionally nice to look back to get me very excited.

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I’m assuming she didn’t intend on me finding them and I never knew that these existed but clearing the loft and going through boxes I stumbled across them. To be honest I don’t think I’ll mention it to her that I’ve seen them and have just put them back in the box I found them in. Was a nice surprise though 😂

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saffronguilds · 31/07/2024 15:05

They are just nice memories. Just because they are of sexual nature it doesn't mean they are less or different than any of her other secrets.

@BlackPanther75 What do you mean by duck 🦆 chart?

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Steve78 · 31/07/2024 15:33

saffronguilds · 31/07/2024 15:05

They are just nice memories. Just because they are of sexual nature it doesn't mean they are less or different than any of her other secrets.

@BlackPanther75 What do you mean by duck 🦆 chart?

Yeah I get that and I’m ok with that aswell,
he meant dick chat 😂

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Steve78 · 31/07/2024 16:37

K8ate · 31/07/2024 14:43

I do have intimate photos from past relationships but i wouldn’t my dh to find them and wouldn’t keep them in a place where they could be found by him.
My dh isn’t the largest i’ve had but i have no complaints at all. However, the feeling of fullness I’ve previously experienced isn’t quite the same to push me over the edge and it’s occasionally nice to look back to get me very excited.

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She’s never complained about our sex and always says it’s great. It’s a turn on knowing she’s had a lot bigger and I believe I’m just over average in size so it must have been huge. Always a nice fantasy knowing a partners past

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Olddad72 · 31/07/2024 18:44

It sounds like that brightened up your day.
I had I similar experience but I came across some old love letters from an energetic young man from way back when. I gave the box to my wife and asked her to see if there was anything she wanted to keep before I threw anything away. I haven't seen the letters since.

K8ate · 31/07/2024 19:04

Steve78 · 31/07/2024 16:37

She’s never complained about our sex and always says it’s great. It’s a turn on knowing she’s had a lot bigger and I believe I’m just over average in size so it must have been huge. Always a nice fantasy knowing a partners past

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I have no complaints but i can’t speak for all women of course.
To be honest, the first few times of experiencing the fullness of a large penis is exciting but you get used to it and it’s not so thrilling after that really. It really doesn’t need to be that big but the novelty is nice.
It does excite me when i first see a large one though!
In the past i mean - i’m married now!

slammmer · 31/07/2024 23:20

K8ate · 31/07/2024 19:04

I have no complaints but i can’t speak for all women of course.
To be honest, the first few times of experiencing the fullness of a large penis is exciting but you get used to it and it’s not so thrilling after that really. It really doesn’t need to be that big but the novelty is nice.
It does excite me when i first see a large one though!
In the past i mean - i’m married now!

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The lady doth protest too much, methinks - lol.

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Steve78 · 01/08/2024 07:55

K8ate · 31/07/2024 19:04

I have no complaints but i can’t speak for all women of course.
To be honest, the first few times of experiencing the fullness of a large penis is exciting but you get used to it and it’s not so thrilling after that really. It really doesn’t need to be that big but the novelty is nice.
It does excite me when i first see a large one though!
In the past i mean - i’m married now!

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I’m about 6.5 and she said the biggest she had was about 12 so no idea how she handled that 😂 she had a 12inch dildo once and loved it so the real thing must have been even better 😂.

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bedtimeisthebest · 01/08/2024 08:21

I did see photos of a previous partner naked with her then partner but just naked, no sexual activity, save from his hands and mouth on her boobs and similar.

When my wife was with her fuck buddy a few years ago they did take explicit sexual photos of each other and together, with his full knowledge I would be shown them

Even though I'd been involved in threesomes with them before, and even just watched at times, it was still a massive turn on for me to view them.

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Steve78 · 02/08/2024 10:15

bedtimeisthebest · 01/08/2024 08:21

I did see photos of a previous partner naked with her then partner but just naked, no sexual activity, save from his hands and mouth on her boobs and similar.

When my wife was with her fuck buddy a few years ago they did take explicit sexual photos of each other and together, with his full knowledge I would be shown them

Even though I'd been involved in threesomes with them before, and even just watched at times, it was still a massive turn on for me to view them.

Wow, that all sounds great,
my sex life sounds so vanilla compared to what you just said 😂.
Was you together when she had a fuck buddy or was that prior to your relationship?

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Shropshiregirl51 · 02/08/2024 13:45

I’ve learned over the years there are two types of partners.

Those that if you mentioned a previous lover being accomplished or large would be very unhappy, and those that would be very aroused.

I believe a huge amount of males are rather aroused at the thought of there wife with another man. I really am.

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Steve78 · 02/08/2024 13:49

Shropshiregirl51 · 02/08/2024 13:45

I’ve learned over the years there are two types of partners.

Those that if you mentioned a previous lover being accomplished or large would be very unhappy, and those that would be very aroused.

I believe a huge amount of males are rather aroused at the thought of there wife with another man. I really am.

100%!
Hearing what my wife has done in the past is a massive turn on especially finding pictures 😂. for her she hates hearing about what I’ve done.

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PaleBrunette · 03/08/2024 09:27

How nice she has photos from her past. I never and my DH never took pictures like that of me. Now after kids it would be nice to remember how I was.
You could always offer to take new photos of her now.

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Steve78 · 03/08/2024 10:48

PaleBrunette · 03/08/2024 09:27

How nice she has photos from her past. I never and my DH never took pictures like that of me. Now after kids it would be nice to remember how I was.
You could always offer to take new photos of her now.

Would love to take those pics myself but when I said it before (prior to seeing these pictures) she said she would never take pictures naked or in her underwear or having sex 😂.

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