Last year I bought my first ever toy for my own personal use. 32 years old and I'd always been raised to feel wrong for even so much as touching that area but managed to get the confidence last year to start trying out toys. I'm looking at getting a Rose Lix toy from Ann summers. This is my first toy of this kind too so would like some advice from anyone who has perhaps used this. I feel silly asking this but still feel inexperienced in this. I keep toys for myself as my DP has no interest in toys but that's not a problem as we have no need of them when together.