BJ on a flaccid penis

[Plsdiscuss]

What does it feel like? Is it pleasurable?

Last night's hook up had an ED problem. I was quite happy giving him oral. He was making all the right noises during it, but I wasn't sure if he was faking it.

It's not something I've experienced before. I've only ever known a flaccid penis to get hard in my mouth.

So was he enjoying himself or being noisy to be polite?

It might have felt nice for him in a way, but he can't have been feeling anywhere near the heights of orgasm if he wasn't hard. Hopefully a man will come along and answer.

Bloke here, right on point. Ideally he'll be hard, but can still feel pleasurable, so I'd say he would have found It enjoyable. Try and not feel bad, not your fault. Any stimulationof his cock will be a nice sensation for him.

Guys don't usually have the subtlety to fake It...

I don't feel bad as I know it's not my fault.

His noises were responding positively and sometimes loudly to different actions, so it's reassuring to hear they were likely genuine.

I'm hoping to see him again, as we really clicked, but the ED will be an issue for me if it's long term for him.

@Plsdiscuss , It's good that you realise that It's not your fault and don't feel bad. Multiple reasons for ED, so hopefully a one-off for him. Ask him to do something about It, if persistent, or find someone else, obviously. Age, performance anxiety, alcohol, stress, all factors. There are things you can do, obviously so I won't go into those, viagra and cockrings, for example. He'll likely bad about It as well, so never an easy situation to confront.

@Plsdiscuss

I’d say very likely to be genuine. Not yet encountered ED so emotionally maybe a different experience but I have in a past life had many a soft BJ to get me going post clubbing. They were immensely pleasurable and not easy to recreate. Maybe aging may have some benefits to look forward too .

Ugh giving a bj on a soft penis definitely doesn't get me excited

I reckon It would be quite a difficult prospect, actually. A limp endeavour, as It were.

It wasn't my choice!

I was hoping there may have been a response from him which was more than vocalising his pleasure, but it wasn't to be.

A friend of mine used to like to do while still soft and then making it hard.

I did not complain as she was very very good at it and had the desired effect...

You may be surprised how fake guys can be 😂

Ooo I don’t think I’d like that. If my DH isn’t at least sporting a solid semi there’s no way I’d put it in my mouth, that would feel weird and horrible. Good luck OP.

It can't be nice for the giver of the BJ, fairly sure of that.

I'm all about giving pleasure as well as getting it.

I was happy to keep going, as it sounded like he was enjoying himself.

I have a FWB that has the same issue caused by meds, and he’s in his thirties. I really like him so and he’s very giving, but it’s disappointing not just having pleasure of a fully hard penis.

OK, My hand is up! I have serious ED and find it VERY hard (no pun intended) to get even a semi-lob on, but yes, a blow job is still very enjoyable and an orgasm is still possible.

Well done and Good luck!

Not true, have faked pleasure and orgasm a few times to get sex over with, especially if a bit boring

An ex of mine faked an orgasm once, most likely to get sex over with. Sex was awful though.

It is possible to give a bj on a flaccid cock and still make him cum.

@Fs365 , fair play, then. I'd not be able to fake convincingly. Usually quivering, moaning, and having my eyes roll back in my head, then wanting to quickly reciprocate.

@B1rd

It is possible to cum with a flaccid cock.

Orgasms are a product of the nervous system with enough stimulation you can come without an erection. I suppose it’s how long you can be bothered for and how into it you both are.

I can imagine there's a big difference between me staring at it not getting hard on a date in my 40s vs coming home from clubbing in my 20's having both just pulled in terms of effort and excitement!

All the nerve endings that are present in a hard cock are still there when it is flaccid; he wasn't faking.