Foot fetish - advice?

[CrispyLettuce]

New fella tells me he likes feet and would like to a point my toenails. I mean he 'likes' feet. I've never personally come across this before. It doesn't bother me, but I can't ask anyone irl because that would be unfair on him.

Does this mean I now have to make a huge effort over my feet all the time? Things are new and exciting so I'm happy to make an effort and scrub my feet up a bit more carefully but I imagine it might become annoying.

I really don't mind at this point, but I'm also not very good at holding my own personal boundaries.

Hoping for proper advice from real other women and not perves, I've never posted in this topic before and I generally avoid it 🤦‍♀️

I've been on mn for over 16 years and have 4dc. I sometimes catch myself t-rexing in the supermarket queue. Obv I've name changed

I think a lot of men like feet, I did some research recently and it’s a thing, like a lot of women like forearms and hands on a man.

painting your toe nails feels a bit more in the fetish market though, I guess the next sensible question would be what condition does he like feet in? Is he one that doesn’t care and wants to sniff your worn socks? Or does he like them looking beautiful?

my husband likes my feet although they’re always cold so he doesn’t get to see them much 😂 I keep them smooth by removing dry skin once a week or two and have a gel toe polish done every 3-4 weeks or so and that’s enough. That said he doesn’t have a full on fetish.

Thanks. That is helpful. So I should ask him some more about it. I don't mind the idea of him painting them, as long as he's neat 😅

Funny you should say that, I do like hands and forearms. Interesting.

May I ask how you keep them smooth? I have always tried my best but there is definitely dry skin, which tbh I hate for me in any case

Also - for the stupid fuck who sent me PM, fuck off you inadequate little shit. I've reported you.

It is a very common fetish among men, to be honest. He'll love you to keep them smooth maybe, or conversely, the other way around. Foot and leg fetishes are fairly universal. I'm thinking foot jobs with oil, etc. Make him earn them...

Oh god, I'll have to start blinking yoga 🤣

Yes, I've come across this sort of thing firsthand, both from my current partner and from others in the past. Painting your toenails sounds quite sweet - in some ways similar to giving you a massage - so if that's what it amounts to, it could be rather pleasant. Maybe he'd like to do all the other stuff too - applying lotion, exfoliating them and the like. I'm a bit too ticklish to allow my partner free rein, but I'm sure he'd like to do more. Fortunately, his desires extend to footwear too, and as I'm something of a shoe enthusiast, it's easy for us to find common ground. Plus my feet are safely out of the way of his ticking fingers when I've got my boots on, and my stiletto heels can spur him on to ever more vigorous feats of ardour.

FFS, idiotic little twerps reading this. Do not send me PMs. I will just block and report. I have a man and even if I didn't I wouldn't answer your stupid messages you internet random prats.

Thanks. I wear barefoot shoes and I won't be changing that 😬. I'm quite happy to moisturise and stuff really. It's nice to have soft feet. It is sweet isn't it.

Is it par for the course to be pestered by PM if you post here?

Me too, love hands and forearms! My husband knows to roll his shirt sleeves up if he wants to pique my interest 😂 even better if he’s got a nice watch on.

so I just use a foot file every week or two, because I do it regularly there’s not too much to worry about. You could try it every 2-3 days at first and see how you go and maybe moisturise most nights before bed. I probably moisturise about once a week, my husband will give me the odd foot massage once a week or so too with moisturiser.

I’ve never been PMed but tbh I’d just ignore if I was!

@HarrietTheSpyglass snap! Ha.

Thanks for the tips. He'd better be worth the additional effort 🤣