New partners and STIs

[Whyyougottobeanonymous]

Hi ladies
just wondering - do you test with a new partner before having sex even if using condoms?

or do you ask for tests when you’re thinking of ditching the condoms?

Usually when ditching condoms I thought.

@HarrietTheSpyglass Thanks Im overthinking this!

I only ditch condom if I plan on having sex with just one partner and after we are both tested.

When we got together (for the second time) my husband got himself tested before we even slept together. I didn’t as I’d only ever been with him - once before 2.5 years prior to the time we got together.

I exchange tests before I sleep with anyone new. And use condoms.