Here we ago - innies and outies !!

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I appreciate this is a well versed topic of conversation.
but I just need to post for my own self!

i have an outie down there and its never been an issue in past relationships. I’ve been with my partner for over 10 years and our relationship has broken down and we’re now both getting back out there. However, I’ve recently been watching a few films where men, or should really say boys, have said things about the way it looks and used really derogatory words.

Innies seem to be the fashion and the preference. trying to get back out there is hard enough let alone worrying about what someone is going to think of the lady garden ….

does it really matter? Has anyone with an outie actually come across someone being turned off completely?

I have prominent inner labia and this is genuinely - and I mean genuinely - not something I have ever worried a jot about - and I’ve had a lot of sex with a lot of different partners of both sexes. Not one has remarked on the way my vulva looks. I’m not sure what movies you’ve been watching, but assuming you aren’t going to be having sex with boys, the majority of adult men have worked out that bodies aren’t airbrushed. At any rate, if they do care, so what? If somebody dislikes the way any of your body looks, whether that’s your labia, your face, or your general shape then that’s fine: you just don’t have to see them again and move on to the next person who does like what you have.

Blame it on Naked Attraction, until that programme came along I had no idea what an innie or outie was. Never really cared about the appearance of a vulva (that is a sentence I have never written before 😂) and I suspect that's the same for most people who are probably just grateful to be in that situation. Anyone who's hung up on innies and outies probably isn't worth it I'd reckon (with apologies to Naked Attraction).

I thought this was going to be about belly buttons 😂

So did I! 😂

I have an outie and no man has ever recoiled in horror or even passed comment.

I find it bizarre that women have surgery to correct this, the pain must be horrific, not to mention the risk of infection.

If a man gets naked with you and is offended by normal labia you'll quickly dodge a bullet. Have you ever ridiculed a man's penis or scrotum? I doubt it.

I think men have much more of an issue with the genitals than any woman

Designer vaginas and scrotal tightening.

This is just preying on insecurities, none of it matters when you're bumping uglies (pardon the pun).

I think in truth many men like an "innie" but also in reality not bothered that much. They are hardly likely to tell a partner they don't like that they have an "outie". I do have an "innie" and partners have commented in a complimentary way as well as whispering about how they love it during sex.

Frankly though I wouldn't be worried if I had an outie!

Honestly OP unless you look like and Ood, blokes wont care. And even then the probsbly wouldn’t
Of all the naked women I’ve seen I’never once thought
‘na, I’m not sticking my cock in there.’
In fact I’m more worried they’ll be laughing about the size or whether the fecker is actually going to work!

so dont worry!

Men like pussy.

If they see a pussy, it’s off to the races.

Innie, outie, who cares?

Can someone explain the difference 😂😂

Should we be concerned about men seeking women with totally smooth innies because it reminds them of girls rather than adult women?

In my experience most men can tell the difference between children and woman.

It tires me when people shout PAEDO at every opportunity.

Some things are a valid personal choice, a bit like woman who look for younger men or prefer a particular penis size.

However I agree with others,most men don't really care.

Have an outie and never received any comments about it other than compliments. I wouldn’t worry OP

Both are attractive in their own way. I've had partners with both innie and outie. One partner had nice protruding lips which where great to lick and suck on which she enjoyed.
I'd imagine to most men it's just the packaging and the main event is the joy of the delights inside.
Don't worry, most men will worrying about whether is big enough or if they can last long enough!

@Sothisiit your description of oral contact reminded me of a GF with a prominent clitoris. Equally sexy.

FFS...really?

I have a totally smooth innie. I don't look like a child 🙄

Bi female, 40s here with an innie. It wasn’t a choice, that’s the way l am. Nobody cares! All women are different. Take a look at The Great Wall of Vulva.

What videos where boys are saying that?

Bit of an outie, only ever had good comments.

I looked into surgery for myself, but in the end I got a vch piercing (look it up) and it looks so pretty I feel very confident with it

VCH piercings are hot, wish my wife had one. She does have a smoothly waxed "innie" and doesn't look like a child either.