High sex drive

[Laurasanford111]

Hi all

So cut a long story short. I have been with my partner 11 years, we have two children. Because he didn't really want to go near me pregnant and couldn't bear the thought of intimacy after birth meant we haven't done it for 3 years. Yes you heard it right 3 years 🥲 I'm 34 and he is 39 for reference. Even before kids we were not really active and never really experimented, I am very set in what I like, being a submissive him playing Dom role however he just isn't very confident so doesn't feel comfortable always doing that. It was kind of take it or leave it situation, if we did it great if not oh well... However kids sleep through I'm no longer ebf and my sex drive is through the roof.. it's all that has consumed my brain for months whereas pre kids wouldn't have phased me, is this normal to have a high sex drive after kids or your mindset to it completely change? He's not complaining, I am determined to push him out his comfort zone to which before I wouldn't of even bothered with .. I have never posted in this forum before but I am generally curious because I have had two friends say libido has dropped since having children yet I'm at the other end of the scale!

Not as soon as you but libido is currently really high after 20 years… like being in the honeymoon phase again. Loving it.

I am determined to push him out his comfort zone to which before I wouldn't of even bothered with .

^^ how do think he feels about this ?
what do you think would be the response if a man said this about his wife ?

I'm still breastfeeding, but during ovulation my libido is higher than I ever remember. Honestly feel like my whole body is humming.
im not on birth control so I fight the urges and try to keep my interest until I,m past ovulation. But I find it drops off a cliff once I've ovulated.

my partner as asked for more intimacy so I,m lucky that if I ask I get. But I feel bad that my libido isn't always there.

Same OP, I’m 34 and my sex drive has gone through the roof. I suspect it’s normal before our 40s brings us the menopause.

I agree with a previous poster though, you shouldn’t be pushing anyone out of their comfort zone regarding sex unless they’re willingly and actively engaged.

When I was breast feeding my last child, I found my labido went through the roof. Counting down the minuets until they had enough and went for their nap so I cant some peace time!