i have been seeing this guy off and on since last year. At the start it was good times with each other, I then wanted make generally, not with him per se. He wasn’t in that place and we stopped seeing each other in September.
I was then on an app and saw his profile which now said he was looking for long term…
Reconnected in December (he contacted me) and spent time together - very flirty etc, but nothing happened. Then Jan, and since start of March seeing each other more often with dates, but neither one referred to it as that! last weekend we had sex, regular contact in the week and have plans for a next date (if that’s what you call it?!).
I really like him, we get on clearly, both have kids and full on careers, neither are seeing other people.
I need to speak with him as I can’t get invested, can I?
writing here as I think if my friend told me this I’d say chat to him but likely not going anywhere, unless explicit…
you agree?