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Are other men like this?

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IloveWelshcakes · 18/02/2024 22:47

Second post from me. I must be in a thoughtful mood. Just to say up front, I love my husband and we've been together for years. This is not a problem, not an issue, just a question. I'm guessing like all men the amount of cum my husband produces varies. A little or a lot I'm not particularly bothered.

But he does make me laugh when it happens to be .... er, particularly copious. He seems so very pleased with himself! I think he's hoping I get especially turned on by it whereas as long as we're both having a good time I just enjoy sex with him anyway.

Are other men like this or is it just my dear husband? 😅

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Namechangeforfuntopic · 19/02/2024 07:20

Just to say I envy you, I enjoyed sex with one BF who was in the copious class.

35dadof2kent · 19/02/2024 09:15

Any man who says he doesn't enjoy it is lying lol , if it's been a while or a built up session seeing a huge load o. Your partner is a great feeling 😂

HootyMcBoob · 19/02/2024 13:22

Well, my DP has hyperspermia and I love it! Obviously he does too. The fact that he produces so much is a real turn-on for me.

DistingusedSocialCommentator · 19/02/2024 13:23

Most men are like that from what I have seen

MrsBrollie · 19/02/2024 13:58

My husband moans about his loads, he some how thinks bigger loads would make him a better lover, it makes zero difference to me.

I hate being cummed on so don’t really see the size of his loads, they are normally inside me. On top of that if he still wants to have sex nearly every day and masturbate every day I don’t see how he thinks he can have big pornstar loads

35dadof2kent · 19/02/2024 16:22

MrsBrollie · 19/02/2024 13:58

My husband moans about his loads, he some how thinks bigger loads would make him a better lover, it makes zero difference to me.

I hate being cummed on so don’t really see the size of his loads, they are normally inside me. On top of that if he still wants to have sex nearly every day and masturbate every day I don’t see how he thinks he can have big pornstar loads

Sex and masturbating every day , guys living the dream even if he's releasing dust 😂

LangleyPark · 19/02/2024 16:29

I suppose if DH has a big load I feel I’ve earned it and DH really enjoyed it. I know that’s not how it works, but there’s still that little kick of I did that?! that’s never really gone away since I was a teenager 🙈

I don’t think DH himself actually minds, certainly not if it’s PIV and he can’t even see it. Not sure how I’d bring it up with him in conversation to ask him!

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IloveWelshcakes · 19/02/2024 16:37

It sounds like he's not unusual. I suspected he probably wasn't! 😅 I asked him if it feels physically nicer for him when he cums a large amount. He said definitely yes although I think it's as much a mental thing - maybe affirming his masculinity or something! 😄

Like I say the amount doesn't do anything for me particularly although I enjoy that he enjoys it.

Yep, holding off seems to make a difference. Work and various other commitments at the moment means we only have sex every few days, maybe sometimes up to a week.

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maninthemyrror · 19/02/2024 18:30

35dadof2kent · 19/02/2024 09:15

Any man who says he doesn't enjoy it is lying lol , if it's been a while or a built up session seeing a huge load o. Your partner is a great feeling 😂

I guess I must be the exception here.

I don’t like loads of cum, I actually don’t like to cum!

Yeah I know that must sound absolutely bananas, but there I said it… I don’t like to cum… yes I’m likely psychologically messed up in the head.

I really don’t like cumming on my partner, it seems very disrespectful to me.
I prefer not to cum in her, if I can avoid it, it does happen on occasion, and while it feels good, it also feels… bad.

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IloveWelshcakes · 22/02/2024 07:56

@maninthemyrror I don't know what to say really but that does sound unusual. I don't feel disrespected in any way when my husband cums in me whether in my vagina or anywhere else, or occasionally on me. I enjoy the fact that he's really enjoying himself.

It can sometimes mean a bit of a clean up afterwards but to me it just feels a natural, fun and loving experience to share together.

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Namechangefromholiday · 23/02/2024 06:38

IloveWelshcakes · 22/02/2024 07:56

@maninthemyrror I don't know what to say really but that does sound unusual. I don't feel disrespected in any way when my husband cums in me whether in my vagina or anywhere else, or occasionally on me. I enjoy the fact that he's really enjoying himself.

It can sometimes mean a bit of a clean up afterwards but to me it just feels a natural, fun and loving experience to share together.

I'm similar. I love hearing and seeing him cum, look on face etc. is nice when there is a lot of it as for my DH it signifies we have usually been playing a while and he was very aroused. He says aside from producing a lot, he likes the ache he gets for a short while as his balls have emptied.

All things to all people really as to what they like

Anotherbloke1 · 26/02/2024 12:24

In my teens I would cum a decent amount and give pearl necklace etc. Now I don't produce much and it doesn't shoot out like it used too, not sure if having the snip changed that? Although I would love to shoot more it doesn't affect our sex life in any way.

CasualGamer · 21/01/2025 15:53

HootyMcBoob · 19/02/2024 13:22

Well, my DP has hyperspermia and I love it! Obviously he does too. The fact that he produces so much is a real turn-on for me.

Is the hyperspermia an occasional thing, or happens every time?

DreamyPeachReader · 21/01/2025 17:15

Interestingly between the age of 20 and 80 the volume of semen produced by a man reduces by approximately 55%. So ladies make the most of it. IloveWelshcakes and Namechangefromholiday have the right idea if you enjoy it who cares about the volume. Sex is about enjoyment.

PaulRevere · 22/01/2025 08:48

I have heard that taking zinc supplements can increase the volume produced.

AbiTourist · 22/01/2025 10:13

That must be nice for you@IloveWelshcakes . I remember a story about a man like this.

Goodtimesforachange · 22/01/2025 11:17

There must be a lot of men and women who like it as there are lots of supplements to improve consistency and volume even Mums Net’s beloved Lovey Honey sells them!

The one I always made me chuckle when I saw it was Maxi cum. I’ve never tried them be interested to know if anyone or anyone’s partner has and if it made any difference or its jus another way of praying on insecurities.

I’ve not seen many ejaculating penises in real life. Does ball size have any correlation I would imagine it would?

Chattyhubby77 · 25/01/2025 09:15

Basically if he produces a "big load" he's probably not had a wank for a few days if not much cum he's been wanking that day.

NDerbys32 · 25/01/2025 12:01

It happens occasionally, and yes, I am rather pleased when it does lol. Not at all smug afterwards. It's a good feeling when you come and it lasts longer.

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