Guy asked who I belong to

[mrsrussel]

Name changed for this one.

I had sex with a guy I've been dating. I'm not a prude by any means and have talked dirty before.
But while we were having sex he asked me who I belong to and then asked me again. Then asked if I wanted to belong to him.

Is this just normal dirty talk? I found it quite dark.

That sounds like bdsm talk? Submissive partners talk of being "owned"
If you're thinking of playing again with this guy you might want to see with him if you have compatible tastes 😬

Yes, it’s normal dirty talk but if it made you uncomfortable and you found it dark you should tell him.

It seems to be a common line used by men who can’t come up with anything original. That’s the conclusion of my friends who are dating/have dated in the last few years anyway.

Well let's face it, little is truly original in heat of the moment dirty talk.

Well let's face it, little is truly original in heat of the moment dirty talk.

Maybe that’s just your own limitations showing.

This is generic shit that sounds like this bloke has watched 50 shades one too many time’s and fancies himself as an even shitter version of Christian Grey. I’d say if you can’t do better, don’t bother as you sound like a dickhead. 🤣

I am so awkward with dirty talk everything just sounds so corny to me 😂😂😂

Have no idea if it's from Grey - have only ever read the briefest sample - is it? I don't think any of my extemp efforts will be winning the Booker so will spare folks. If yours are better/have better references feel free to raise our game.

I think the only issue is whether the OP is OK with it to be honest.

Who's to say what's "normal"?

A lot of these blokes are more Christian off-white than Christian Grey

You hit the nail on the head with your question is it normal

if your not comfortable and you tell him, and he does it again then it’s not normal.

if you enjoy it then it’s normal. As others said it’s lifted from the bdsm world.

talk about it, most guys struggle with balancing dirty talk between erotic and cringy.

ive met very few guys who can really do it! But those who can. Wow!!

Oh yes! I know exactly what you mean.

Walk away.

It's piss-poor etiquette to suggest a D/s relationship during sex. That kind of thing should be broached whilst dressed and calm. If he doesn't recognise this, and why this is (to safeguard the sub, if you're wondering), he shouldn't be anyone's dom.