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Best (safe) porn site for DH?

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ObviouslyNameChanging · 06/01/2024 15:50

We’re doing IVF, DH doesn’t usually use porn and will likely need to on the day. Need something can download before hand/unsure of wifi/internet signal.
Neither of us have any clue about this, and I can’t help and said would ask MN for advice 😂

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GigiAnnna · 06/01/2024 16:19

Surely an adult man knows what they like jacking off to?

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PinotPony · 06/01/2024 18:03

Well how does he usually masturbate? I'd imagine he just needs to do the same as usual! Why would he need porn for this specific ejaculation?

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Janiie · 06/01/2024 18:56

ObviouslyNameChanging · 06/01/2024 15:50

We’re doing IVF, DH doesn’t usually use porn and will likely need to on the day. Need something can download before hand/unsure of wifi/internet signal.
Neither of us have any clue about this, and I can’t help and said would ask MN for advice 😂

Aw good luck with IVF op

<I'm sure your dh really does know what pops his cork as it were but nice that you're sourcing clips together lol>

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ObviouslyNameChanging · 06/01/2024 19:07

PinotPony · 06/01/2024 18:03

Well how does he usually masturbate? I'd imagine he just needs to do the same as usual! Why would he need porn for this specific ejaculation?

Because walking into a hospital clinic room for the sole purpose and stress that it has to be at that exact time or you lose a cycle and thousands and everyone knows why you are there is a little more difficult than at home?
HTH

Will stick to asking google to find somewhere.

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ObviouslyNameChanging · 06/01/2024 19:08

GigiAnnna · 06/01/2024 16:19

Surely an adult man knows what they like jacking off to?

Thanks, was just asking about specific sites that are safe and can purchase/download on before hand. He’ll find what he likes from there, I was asking about sites not wanting to someone to infect his phone with malware.
But thanks for taking the time to reply. Will note the sex topic is not the place to ask for recommendations of porn sites. Thanks again.

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PinotPony · 06/01/2024 19:51

Because walking into a hospital clinic room for the sole purpose and stress that it has to be at that exact time or you lose a cycle and thousands and everyone knows why you are there is a little more difficult than at home?

Ok, fair enough. Was only asking!

Common free porn sites are PornHub or Xhamster but he may prefer ethical porn (which you pay for) from somewhere like MakeLoveNotPorn

HTH

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Onlinetherapist · 06/01/2024 20:08

@ObviouslyNameChanging I don’t know of any suitable sites but they usually have adult magazines there if that might help? Good luck x

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MySXforumnn · 06/01/2024 20:11

Another vote for Xhamster, more than enough to chose from. But you will need an internet connection as you cant download from it. If your phone has a screen record function you could use that I assume.

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JTRSOP · 06/01/2024 20:20

The clinic usually provides material doesn’t it? When we had IVF they did (2015).

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GigiAnnna · 06/01/2024 21:37

But if he doesn't like porn, what does he wank to? Can't he just do that? I'm not being funny with you but he must know what turns him on.

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acpk55 · 06/01/2024 22:27

I didn’t think you could really download, as long as he has a 4G / 5G connection & a smart phone should be fine

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MarkT · 07/01/2024 00:15

How about you provide some sexy pictures / video of you... far more personal and intimate for him?

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OfcourseitsaNC · 07/01/2024 00:46

Why on earth does he need porn?

Take some photos for him to use
Make a solo video for him to use
Make a joint video for him to use
Record you talking dirty for him to use

Surely this is a far better option than porn to him? And it's free!

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MarkT · 07/01/2024 00:48

OfcourseitsaNC · 07/01/2024 00:46

Why on earth does he need porn?

Take some photos for him to use
Make a solo video for him to use
Make a joint video for him to use
Record you talking dirty for him to use

Surely this is a far better option than porn to him? And it's free!

yes this is the best option!

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Sothisiit · 07/01/2024 07:03

Was going to suggest the same as @OfcourseitsaNC. Surely it would be nicer to make something with you in it to encourage him.
Could be fun to make as a surprise and more erotic and personal.

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Onlinetherapist · 07/01/2024 10:32

@ObviouslyNameChanging actually, if this is the ejaculation that is going to produce your child, it does make more sense that it would be you he is looking at rather than strangers! Some clinics are ok with women going in too, some cultures insist on it as the other way is taboo!

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PlusMinusDividedBy · 07/01/2024 12:27

I would recommend the site Frolic Me - female owned and directed. Nice natural sex.

But as others have said a video that YOU make for him would do the trick

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ObviouslyNameChanging · 07/01/2024 12:55

Thanks all, I genuinely didn’t think of that! It’s not something we’ve ever done but I will need to put my big girl pants on maybe. Very self conscious post recent surgery but my DH is totally amazing and thinks I’m amazing for some reason too.

Thats interesting @Onlinetherapist i think I remember reading that some American/very Bible Belt clinics gave you special condoms as that was the only way you were allowed to give a sperm sample!

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topcat2014 · 07/01/2024 19:55

Literotica.com is written unlike video. Worth a look.

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IsThisOneAvailable · 07/01/2024 21:39

Maybe have a look at MLNP (Make Love Not Porn)?

Not sure if you can download the ones there though, may need Internet. Worth a look though?

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KirstyHD1 · 14/01/2024 02:58

It is not easy for a guy. Even though he may be a regular masturbator it is not easy being taken to a clinic room with others seeing you going in knowing everyone outside knows you are going to be masturbating in there. Why don't you take a video of yourself and talk dirty while stripping and then give him dirty jerk off instructions?

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infor · 14/01/2024 13:44

Bellesa.co might be good for something you both like. Good luck.

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Interestedonlooker · 17/01/2024 14:26

So I was this exact position 4 years ago so think I can help….
The room will probably have a box, tactfully marked ‘magazines’. These are usually the top shelf type things you used to find in newsagents. It was incredibly unsexy to be asked to produce in demand, especially when you can hear the lab techs on the other side of the hatch. 
The one we went to had a wifi password in a laminate card in the far wall, so internet access helped. 
Bizarrely though after showing me to the room, the nurse said that if I had problems producing a sample on my own they could get my wife to come in!
The free sites listed are good. 

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weathervane1 · 18/01/2024 09:34

From my own experience, I got better results not watching porn but reading erotic literature such as Literotica - there's more for the imagination to work with.

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WhereHasAllTheLoveGone · 20/01/2024 23:12

Hi @ObviouslyNameChanging

We were very open about our IVF and I’ve had some interesting discussions with fellow chaps about their experiences of giving samples.

For some it is a really difficult experience. Personally I had no problem with it. My biggest fear was not hitting the jar for fear of cocking up my only job but practice makes perfect 👌.

I went to two centres one with a grubby draw of 80s magazine in an old NHS building and one with a plush flat screen and headphones with a dentist style chair so there will be material available without needing his phone. I quite like the retro vibe of the NHS and a full bush it appeared.

As mentioned above the nicest thing was to use pictures of my own wife. We’d also never took and pictures before and it was just so much nicer and I wish we’d have done it from the start. @OfcourseitsaNC that’s great advice!

We had 3 cycles and 8 egg transfers so I’ve given a lot of samples and one did eventually work ❤️.

Stick together and the very best of luck x

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