To try this threesome

[Amyrainyday]

Hi everyone, I hope you’ve all had a good Xmas.

Dh and I have decided that we want to experiment more sexually in the new year. We’ve already had a couple of threesomes with another woman, but we’re now thinking about inviting another man into our bed. I have a fantasy to see dh with another guy, and he’s to for it.

has anyone else tried this?

Well we did it! Honestly the most erotic experience of my life. Bit awkward for the first 30 mins but we soon settled into it😝

Wow - tell us more, who got the most attention? You or DH?

Happy to tell but will I get my account blocked? Not sure how much I can share?

I don't either?

Here is a censored summary…

guy arrived and we had a glass of wine and a chat- slightly akward but we soon settled down.

headed upstairs (with wine) and got naked. I asked the boys to start as this is what I wanted to see. They played on the bed ( not sex- just handjob/oral) which I loved.

I joined them on the bed- both had sex with me. Other guy went down on me whilst dh had sex with him from behind. One of my most intense orgasms. The boys came on each other

my legs are still shaking

Fantastic update. Glad you had a great time. This is absolutely on my bucket list of things to try.

Well if you do, take my advice and don’t use your best duvet 🥹

How utterly grim
As if this happened 🤦‍♀️

Why is it grim??? It might not float your boat and that’s fine, but why post this?

Because I want to?
Urrghh
Id take your kids out for the weekend instead

Thanks for your opinion. Have a lovely weekend xx

Best duvet? 🤢🤢
Did you take your duvet to the " hotel" ?

Hotel? Are you jealous?

Noted 😉

Think in the lifestyle it has always been more acceptable for women to play with other women that it has been for men to play with men. When we started meeting others we decided that if it was good enough for one it was good enough for the other. We both decided that if we were both turned on enough then playing with the same sex was ok.

I personally would not want to watch my DH with another man (would turn me off) but I wouldn’t want to be with another woman myself. I don’t see the appeal. Each to their own though.

Sounds like you had a great time. I've had more threesomes with two men than with two women, I particularly love it if they're bi and we can all play equally. I do kind of feel like when I see him with a guy I want to sit back and just enjoy it, which I guess is how men feel when they watch their wife with a woman. Most of our partners we meet through the poly/kink scene and a lot of us are queer too, so it just happens naturally with friends mostly

The thread has threesome in the title - why did you click it?

Hands sweaty, slipped, clicked by mistake?

I'm thinking more likely a titillation failure.
Maybe they're a fella hoping for a bit of vicarious FMF.

I don’t think there’s anything grim about consenting adults enjoying sex. Not sure what that poster’s problem is, nor why they clicked on the thread given the title was clear and unambiguous, if they think threesomes are grim.

If I had to wash a duvet after watching my husband have bum sex with another man whilst going down on me.... my Fanny would clamp shut
Forever
Hope that helps

Presumably you (or husband) wash your duvets regularly after various activities, sleeping, sex whatever?