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Increase in sex drive

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Berryberrywintermedley · 16/12/2023 15:52

I've just turned 32 and have all of a sudden had a huge increase in my sex drive from wanting it monthly to wanting it 3-4 times a week
The only ' issue ' is it's taking me a lot longer to climax now than when I left it a month between each time. Is this normal ? I find my self horny but can take a long time to orgasm
Sometimes 30 mins plus
Normal?
I'm a woman btw

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StarlightLady · 16/12/2023 16:32

Monthly sounds infrequent to me, where as l would say 3 -4 times a week is round about normal. I very much doubt if there is a link between this increase and taking longer to climax though; l do not consider 30 minutes from start of foreplay to orgasm in a 1:1 situation is particularly long, so providing the end makes you quiver with joy …

Have there been other changes? Changes in partner(s), changes in medication, lifestyle, contraception used or, indeed, what you are doing in the bedroom.

harerunner · 20/12/2023 09:08

StarlightLady · 16/12/2023 16:32

Monthly sounds infrequent to me, where as l would say 3 -4 times a week is round about normal. I very much doubt if there is a link between this increase and taking longer to climax though; l do not consider 30 minutes from start of foreplay to orgasm in a 1:1 situation is particularly long, so providing the end makes you quiver with joy …

Have there been other changes? Changes in partner(s), changes in medication, lifestyle, contraception used or, indeed, what you are doing in the bedroom.

Similarly I also want sex 3-4 times a week, but I would say that's above average in my experience... It depends on the relationship... wanting sex 3-4 times a week in the early months of a relationship is pretty normal...10 years in with young kids, it's pretty rare!

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