Bad luck or something more

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I got divorced 4 years ago, and prior to that always had a normal sex life. Only in the last year have I done OLD amd 2 one night stands and one FWB adjacent situation have resulted. I'm 50 but look a few years younger despite silvering hair. The 3 men I've been with have all had, shall we say "performance issues" IYKWIM despite being 3, 15 & 27(!) years younger than me respectively. I would have expected men this young to easily achieve erection and in all honesty ita making me paranoid about my body. Am I just being over dramatic?

@SortingCat , yes, some people will think It's creepy, just trying not to judge the OP, but It is a significant gap and wouldn't be one I'd be comfortable. Intellectually, such a casm between people at that age in relation to life experience.

This is true, such different life stages and experiences. It definitely wouldn’t be for me either but I wouldn’t judge as long as all fully consenting adults.

@DixonD , exactly on point with this one.

I'm generalising, but when the female is that much younger, the power dynamic often is different.

Given they met on hook up site, the 23 yo was probably using the OP for a throwaway milf fantasy (which didn't work out for him anyway).

Whereas a younger girl may have quite different and altogether more romantic motivations for being with an older man. This can so easily be taken advantage of by the man, who again, might ultimately be motivated by hooking up with her nubile body .

Nah, some things should be judged by society. Trying to shag 23 year olds when you’re 50 is one of them. We don’t and shouldn’t be ok with everything just because it may be legal. It’s revolting and I’m happy to judge on this one.

well that's the OP, on here for some advice, well told - judged not just by Mnet sex police but the whole of society. Just British I assume? Possible to flee abroad under a changed name?

Precisely. I think that's why It's not right to judge too harshly the OP, here. The 23 year old was looking for exactly that kind of "milf" fantasy, probably understood what he was getting into, only to discover that he couldn't stand to attention when It came down to It. When you intellectualise It, both are harming one another, just for different reasons.

Possible to flee abroad under a changed name?

Come on now, we all know you’ve name changed or are you using a couple or more at the moment. Very obvious language.

Women have to name change here as the pervs PM more often. 🤢

50 year olds are sick if they’re shagging or trying but failing to shag in this case, 23 year olds.

When you intellectualise It, both are harming one another, just for different reasons

Those with more life experience should know better and not be a creep.