Hellfire Club Sunbury & Fabswingers

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A couple of questions:

Does anyone have any recent experience of this club and if so what were your thoughts on it? Thinking of going in a couple of weeks as we are in the area. We are newbies and read that they have pink glow bands to signify this, which appeals to both of us.

Is it the case that after joining fabswingers we will have to go through a lot of replies that we will then have to spend time blocking. I guess we are asking that is the effort worth it in the end on this site?

thank you

I've not heard of that club, but I'm in the midlands. The furthest-south ones that I have heard are good are Liberty Elite and Vanilla Alternative. I have an account on Fab, but only because some of my friends were only on there so it became a sort-of social media. A lot of people switch off single men being able to message them, so that you can message first instead, as within the first half hour of setting up my account I had 200 messages. The Fabmin takes a long time to do!

There is Swinghub (new but not ideal yet, but trying to weed out the strange men), or Feeld (poly and kinky, but there are swingers on there too). I use Feeld most, but I'm poly not a swinger so I'm looking for dating relationships. If you describe exactly what you're looking for (eg two of you wanting to meet a solo male for ONS or FWB) you should find it successful. You create separate accounts that you can then pair, that's more appealing to others than a joint one (I feel a lot of the joint ones are a bit catfishy or don't tell me enough). There's lots of different relationship types and orientations on there, so be specific to get the right matches.

I've never met anyone from Fab - partly as the men predominantly seem to be looking for quick sex (as in, I'll park outside your house now and you can do me in the car), even though most of my swing friends would like a drink meet before a sex meet. I guess I'm still there in case I can meet a long-term partner, which since most of my partners are on there is entirely plausible one day!

Hope that helps a bit.

@lilkitten, thank you. I had a kind PM on the club, and your reply has confirmed to us what we expected from fab, so we will give it a miss.
It was to be used for arranging socials before the club/event rather than play/hook up

I've been to lots of clubs but not that one. Sorry.

You can hide your profile on fab. I would suggest that as soon as you join you tap:
Account at the top
Privacy settings
Hide profile.

You can then at least browse for a while until you have a look around. You don't need to pay to browse and chat. If you go to Home at the top, then Club Reviews, there seems to be recent positive reviews about the Hellfire club.

@B1rd that's really great advice. Thank you