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Gutted I’ve only just discovered

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TooTiredToInventAUsername · 09/10/2023 16:48

Reddit!

I was recently introduced to the world of Reddit, and my goodness it is easy to fall down a NSFW rabbit hole!

Now, I know knew I wasn’t the most adventurous person in the bedroom (have tried ass play, anal, a few toys) but some of these pages make me wonder if I’m more “vanilla” than I thought!

Some sub-reddits were too much for me and did not interest me, but others made me curious and honestly rather turned on.

These included:
r/sluttyconfessions - peoples sexy confessions that made me feel like my sex life is not at all exciting in comparison
r/garterbelts - a lingerie item I had never considered, but am now looking to buy
r/shefuckshim - the female dominance is inspiring, and new positions I now want to try
r/creampiecleanup - I don’t know if it’s the taboo, or dominance I would have but I found this very sexy.
r/sextstories- erotic stories portrayed as a text conversation with pictures

There are so many sub-Reddits to name and explore. I’ve been browsing most of today and DH is getting leapt on tonight!

So, multiple questions for you:
~Have you got any go-to subreddits you can recommend?
~How do I suddenly introduce more experimentation with DH of 10 years who seems happy with our sex life?
~Have you introduced something new to your partner, and what was it?

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Thisismysexforumname · 09/10/2023 23:47

I've never really got on with reddit before, but Ive looked at some of those and think I might have to reconsider. Thank you 😉

qwerty123454 · 10/10/2023 07:20

I'm on Reddit and have been for about five years

It doesn't matter what I type in to search, the search is dominated with pre populated NSFW subs being suggested

I was searching for something very innocent that began with Co and the first suggestion was Covered in cum

I've seen slutty confessions, I think most of them are fake

For anybody who's curious, you have to sign in to see the NSFW subs

Sasha46 · 10/10/2023 08:28

I’ve recently discovered Reddit over the last couple of weeks….it’s certainly an eye opener.

Thisismysexforumname · 10/10/2023 10:57

Is there any easy way to navigate? It still feels like a big jumble of stuff

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TooTiredToInventAUsername · 10/10/2023 20:01

You need to create an account to get full visibility. You search sub-reddits, but the auto-suggestions lead you down a rabbit hole.
As PP have said, your search for cute puppies or pet supplies for your dog will have pages for doggystyle and dogging.

Once you join the “communities” you like the look of those posts will automatically show on your home page.

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TooTiredToInventAUsername · 10/10/2023 20:03

qwerty123454 · 10/10/2023 07:20

I'm on Reddit and have been for about five years

It doesn't matter what I type in to search, the search is dominated with pre populated NSFW subs being suggested

I was searching for something very innocent that began with Co and the first suggestion was Covered in cum

I've seen slutty confessions, I think most of them are fake

For anybody who's curious, you have to sign in to see the NSFW subs

Loads of the confessions or stories are fake or hugely exaggerated. Doesn’t mean they can’t be fun!

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lilkitten · 11/10/2023 19:32

Not on Reddit as I can't understand it, but these sex chat threads are my new rabbithole! Going back to your initial list, I love pegging - so far only with my DH as I've not found other willing partners, but I love being in control like that. I get most of my ideas for things from Fetlife or Unseen Lounge (a Discord group for the poly/swing/kink communities in the east midlands)

qwerty123454 · 11/10/2023 21:23

Thisismysexforumname · 10/10/2023 10:57

Is there any easy way to navigate? It still feels like a big jumble of stuff

If you create an account you can then "follow" sub Reddit's. You can also follow other Reddit users

Every time the followed subs or users post it will then be on your feed when you go on

Some funny ones I've found are Casual UK and British Problems. Ask UK is sometimes worth a look

I also follow UK Police which is interesting as most are serving officers

Whatever you're interested in just search for. It and it will probably be on there

I only ever look at my feed but you can look at the News feed for example instead

There's a lot of fake profiles on there and bots so some of the comments need to be dismissed

r/trashy is funny

As this is the sex board I'll also mention r/dirtyr4r r/sluttyconfessions r/dirtyconfessions all entertaining but as I say, I think a lot are fake

Whatever your kink is I can guarantee there'll be a sub for it

B1rd · 11/10/2023 22:37

I read chastitymansion dot com a few weeks ago and wasted hours! It's not for me, but I love learning about new things.

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TooTiredToInventAUsername · 12/10/2023 12:59

I’ve just had a long browse at this website, thank you for the new source of inspiration!
I really don’t know if DH would be on board with chastity, but can imagine the dominance and power I would have would be exhilarating!

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Graasspp · 12/10/2023 20:26

Most of reddit is people marketing their onlyfans tbh

It does get very niche. Like large labia or eraser nipples. Both would love me haha

mnmnddddd · 13/10/2023 07:26

As a PP said, Redit's software is like all social media and its designed to show you more of what you look at. The algorithms are designed by psychologists who know exactly how to create addicts.
And remember, the deeper the rabbit hole, the fewer people there are in it and the darker it gets.

On a more cheerier note ... there's lots of fun, sexy stuff on the Internet. Trying every gin in the bar can be good for the soul and a long way from getting hooked on crack.

(Steps down from soapbox.)

AlexaAdventuress · 13/10/2023 14:30

I tend to think of most of what I read on Reddit is fantasy, and I wouldn't treat it as if it were a sort of manual as to how to enjoy oneself. However, sometimes they're very interesting fantasies and can certainly set the imagination in motion. After all, most of our entertainment and culture is larger than life and what we see on screen or on stage or on the sports field is unlikely to be achievable at home. Doesn't stop it being fun to watch.

EmergencyGuy · 24/10/2023 18:35

I spent a time quite seriously ill and in hospital seven years ago - for some reason (did my iPhone know I was in hospital?) I came across a Reddit about nurses who have had sex with patients! Probably utterly bogus but motivated me to get up off my back and visit the bathroom more often, and actually made a hospital stay a bizarrely pleasant experience!

10kmBeforeBreakfast · 24/10/2023 21:12

Probably utterly bogus

Of course it was. We aren’t shagging patients.

Someone like you, looking ill in a dressing gown of doom really doesn’t do it for any nurses I know.

Nurses can’t even go to work without being sexualised. 🙄

EmergencyGuy · 24/10/2023 23:09

Thought this strand was about Reddit, not an excuse for abuse.

But it's Mumsnet isn't it?

10kmBeforeBreakfast · 24/10/2023 23:26

Abuse? To tell you that hospitals aren’t full of nurses that want to have sex with the patients that they nurse. To tell you that nurses aren’t turned on by their poorly patients they spend hours looking after.

EmergencyGuy · 25/10/2023 00:44

Well, maybe not as you conveniently paint it, but the reality is that hospitals contain men and women...... and, from there, then nature takes its course.

However, this strand is about Reddit, not about reality.... not what you or I think.

10kmBeforeBreakfast · 25/10/2023 01:57

Your nurses didn’t want to have sex with you. We see you at your most vulnerable, weak and worst and couldn’t be less interested in that. It is delusional to think a nurse would be interested in a sick patient, certainly that hospitals are full of nurses shagging I’ll people.

It is you that is trying to conveniently paint us doing our job into something sordid. It makes some people believe it’s reality. It makes our jobs harder. We deal with abuse including sexual harassment regularly already.

Forums are for opinions so they are for writing what I think.

EmergencyGuy · 25/10/2023 09:19

Of course, but they're also for pointing out when people show by their writing that they have double standards. Probably best if you're uncomfortable with the topic of sexual fantasy of others that you keep away from it.

10kmBeforeBreakfast · 26/10/2023 22:38

I’ll post what I like. Sorry if that ruins your fantasy and you would rather I stay away. I won’t.

I was talking about this thread at work today after yet another female nursing colleague had dealt with a sicko male patient and his sicko male visitor sexualising her. Probably another one that believes we want to shag him. 🧐 It gave us a good laugh at least to talk about deluded men believing we’d want to have sex with ill men that are our patients. A window into the minds of sad little men.

Thankfully most men we nurse treat us respectfully.

KirstHD1 · 27/10/2023 17:11

I think the NSFW Reddit groups can be great fun. You just have to find something that turns you on. Yes, some may be fakes or exaggerated but that is fine with me - it is the fantasy that I look for.

EmergencyGuy · 27/10/2023 20:20

Thank you for confirming the nature of your bigoted assumptions, none of which are applicable in my case, and none of which can be reasonably deduced by my original post.

As I say, if the subject matter on this strand upsets you, probably worth looking elsewhere on the very big internet.

ColdMornings · 28/10/2023 16:51

Of course it was. We aren’t shagging patients.

Someone like you, looking ill in a dressing gown of doom really doesn’t do it for any nurses I know.

Nurses can’t even go to work without being sexualised.

🤣 and 👏 👏 👏

Some people convince themselves of anything.

Graasspp · 28/10/2023 17:01

EmergencyGuy · 27/10/2023 20:20

Thank you for confirming the nature of your bigoted assumptions, none of which are applicable in my case, and none of which can be reasonably deduced by my original post.

As I say, if the subject matter on this strand upsets you, probably worth looking elsewhere on the very big internet.

Can actually you go elsewhere please?

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