Were you surprised how much you liked something?

[CactusPeach]

I've been with my partner for 6 years, he's always expressed an interest in me sucking his dick after he's been inside me, then continuing PIV sex.
Tbh the idea has always grossed me out and he doesn't want me to do anything I'm not comfortable with so it hasn't happened.

He does do the equivalent for me, it's not something I asked for, I do enjoy it but it takes a while to get into it because he is rather large so between that and the sensation of his thrusting I'm a bit desensitised.

Anyway, as a said it doesn't appeal to me and he has never pushed it but does really want it. Should I try it? Might I actually really enjoy it?
We've done anal a few times, which is actually really intimate and loving, not how I imagined it at all.

Is there anything you were surprised how much you liked?

You could try it; you might be surprised. I do it and it’s fine. It doesn’t even register to me because I get completely lost in the moment. It’s not bad at all. I remember feeling a bit weird about it the first time but got past that very quickly.

When I discovered that I could come during anal sex which is something I never thought was possible so I guess it has to be that.

And yes, I think you could possibly try what your partner suggests as long as there's no pressure, and it sounds as though there isn't at all. It's all part of intimacy and fun.

My husband once suggested panty stuffing, I had never even heard of it before, I was surprised that I enjoyed it! I’m not going say it’s the most amazing experience but it’s naughty and something different that we do from time to time.

for the naive/sheltered, can you say what this actually is?

That was my exact response when he asked me to do it! as the name suggests it’s basically stuffing a pair of panties inside your vagina. He will normally do oral on me and when I’m about to orgasm he will pull them out.

Sure I read somewhere once that there’s no taste as such, providing washed of course, to sucking cock, maybe the ladies could confirm or deny that, DW has never had an issue with oral after piv but as with anything each to their own, never tried panty stuffing as such but she does enjoy keeping her knickers on and having them pushed in during sex which started almost by accident, I was surprised how much I enjoyed rimming, really didn’t think either of us would but you never know until you try

@Hijinks75 There is a taste if there is precum produced.

thanks for explanation - I imagine it's the mindplay/sense of it being somehow dirty that is the turn-on, not the physical sensation as such.

Yea that’s pretty much it. The sensation is just a felling of being very full, and pulling them out at the point of orgasm is a great sense of release, a bit like anal beads.

@MovedonfromMartin He does pre-cum quite a while before he actually cums and it's salty, I don't like the taste much 🤔

@CactusPeach I absolutely adore the taste. It's like catnip to me! I think it tastes sweet.
I suppose everybody's must taste different.🤷🏼‍♀️

Same here - I love it.

Our tastes change as we go through life, so things that we didn't use to enjoy can often benefit from being revisited to see whether we might now actually like it. As a child I detested sprouts, cabbage, etc., but now adore them.

When you do revisit something and aren't sure about it, I find that it's a good plan to have another try just to be sure.

Variety is indeed the spice of life, and if we didn't ever try new things we'd still all be living on breast milk. Grasp the opportunity of expanding your horizons and dive in.

I definitely find a taste, particularly with pre-cum, and it varies so much from man to man, but I've been told that's the same with women - my DH says that women tastes like either starter, mains or dessert, he loves dessert (I'm mains apparently!). My DH's cum is a bit too salty for me.

OP I did exactly this last night with my new partner. He pulled out and suggested I tasted myself on him, it was quite nice actually and it turned him on massively. Worth a try!

@CactusPeach

I have experienced what you partner has suggested and I can concur that it is very erotic but it’s just one of those things you can’t ask for only possibly suggest as in my opinion you’re partner needs to be really into it/enthusiastic about it.

I’d never really thought about it until a particularly hot encounter in Ibiza. She just did it and what made it so hot was how lost in the moment she was felt a bit primal which why it’s possibly not for everyone (current partner isn’t into it).

You may already do this but if he likes to reciprocate have you tried reverse cowgirl to oral? On occasion my partner has been up for it is awesome and if you’ve not tried it could give you a power move that might blow his (and hopefully your) socks off

Good luck!!

>>On occasion my partner has been up for it is awesome and if you’ve not tried it could give you a power move that might blow his (and hopefully your) socks off

Interesting, but for real eroticism I suggest that you both take your socks off before sex.

You maybe missing out!!

especially as winter closes in 😂

https://www.lovepanky.com/sensual-tease/sizzle/sex-with-socks-on

@WhereHasAllTheLoveGone oh hurrah! I knew it!

@CactusPeach @MovedonfromMartin @DixonD I actually really like the taste of precum too. Which guess is reminder that we're all different! His is salty and tangy.

Probably it's also the context of his mounting excitement which turns me on but I think I just like the taste which I can only describe as "sexy". But then I like the taste of his full ejaculate too.

Maybe that makes me a bit unusual as I know a lot of women don't.

I was quite surprised by how unbelievably good anal feels when done right. Especially with a dildo or similar in the other end. It’s not the same meaning of DP as on here!
We don’t do it very often but I actually prefer it to PIV. Also, I very rarely cum with just PIV but anal makes me cum every time, it’s just such a turn on for me.