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Can you tell when she's had an orgasm?!

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OhAMilkshake · 30/09/2023 20:23

Curious after seeing a post earlier about someone faking it!
I assumed guys could tell when I've had an orgasm whether on their cock/fingers/tongue.
Vaginal contractions, extra wetness, flushed chest/face, feels different inside?
I can't believe I'd get away with faking it just by making a load of noise. There's a lot more going on with my body when I orgasm than just a few noises coming out my mouth!
So do you know when she's cum? Or am I being unrealistic and you really don't have a clue if she's faking or not?!

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vinolover8 · 30/09/2023 21:17

I was dating/casually sleeping with a guy for around 2 months. He didn’t make me orgasm once - he never really tried that hard, and was more interested in his own pleasure (yes I know I should have binned him off way before 2 months).

But on the times where he did try, it just wasn’t working / enjoyable (it takes me quite a long time to orgasm with a partner, and if I feel like they’re going to stop at anytime then it puts me off even more). So, I faked it a few times and he never realised. In fact, he seemed quite pleased with himself 🙄

Saying that, a guy who I went on a date with a few weeks ago told me that they always know when we fake it.

I think it probably depends on a number of factors including experience, if they’ve been drinking, if they care about your pleasure etc.

NoDatingFor0ldMen · 30/09/2023 21:38

i would like think I could tell when a woman fakes it, but probably not.

saying that I’ve faked my orgasm a few times (especially with condoms) and the woman didn’t notice

MarkT · 30/09/2023 22:49

I thought I could tell from the pulsing / contractions. But can this be faked?

OhAMilkshake · 30/09/2023 23:02

Yes- true about experience and how much they give a shit.
I can squeeze/kegal my vagina. That might be kind of what its like when I orgasm lol! But that would be 10/10 for effort on the faking an orgasm scale!
I think if I was faking it, it would mean I wanted it to be over. Which probably meant I wasn't that into the guy. So I probably wouldn't go to that much effort to make it that believable!

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DixonD · 01/10/2023 02:58

MarkT · 30/09/2023 22:49

I thought I could tell from the pulsing / contractions. But can this be faked?

No.

CplT · 01/10/2023 09:55

I can tell when my wife has orgasm from the contractions. They are involuntary and you can tell from the time gaps. Plus the other aspects already mentioned. Although there has been many times when my wife (or myself) have just stopped and said 'enough, no more!' usually when we were drunk or been at it a while, no need to fake.

vinolover8 · 01/10/2023 11:07

@OhAMilkshake yep, so true. I never really enjoyed his efforts and I think subconsciously wanted it over, so I faked it!

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