Sexually frustrated desperately need a vibrator...any suggestions?

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When I've used them before I've found them hard, stuff and too intense on the clit area. I love penetration, thrusting, with a bit of clit contact but not too intense. Normally having my nipple's played with sends me over the edge. Any suggestions?

Rabbit if you like the penetration. Wand is great for intense clit stimulation but it can numb you if you have it on the highest setting. Or you may like a suction toy such as the Womanizer or Satisfyer Pro 2 for gentle clit stim that builds slowly to an explosive climax. Personally I like the wands due to the sheer power and intensity.

Thank you I will have a search

How does a bit of clit contact but not too intense lead to the suggestion of getting a wand? Complete opposite!

I would suggest thinking about how you masturbate and then looking through a shop such as lovehoney, see what appeals. I have a variety so use whichever I fancy at the time.

It can be if you have it on high but loads have a wide range of vibrations varying in intensity, some with patterns. Plus, the head of a wand is large so it provides stimulation for the whole of the vulva area, so if you wanted you don't need to angle it directly on the clitoris, it'll send waves of vibration through your whole pelvic area which may actually seem less intense than something like a rabbit which is directly on the clitoris. It's all about the angle and how you position it.

I have a couple. A bullet may be a good idea to begin with. Another suggestion is using the toy on top of your underwear or clothing so that the vibrations are less intense.

I also have a couple and have found my favourite brand to be je joue because they have a special "rumbly vibration" in their toys which is less intense than a lot of the buzzier types of sensations in other toys. Some wands are huge so if you're after a wand you might want to try a smaller one like this https://shespot.co.uk/products/vita-bullet-pink

Big boss by fun factory. We've had one for about five years. It's very high mileage!

I have a rubbery ribbed one. Decent size and designed for using internally but also is lovely when pulled out and nestled against my clitoris. I really like as I enjoy feeling it inside me with occasional pulling right out and using against my lips and clit. A rabbit could be too intense as against the clit all the time

My partner lasts a minute max with womaniser. Her favourite is her wand. She likes to lay on it so she's hands free.

I used to work for Ann Summers, a lot of people (me included) can find clit-only too intense. I love rabbits - penetration, G-spot, and as much clit pressure as you're comfortable with. I do have a Lelo Sonar Cruise, which is like a suction clit thing. I've found that is great as long as I use it in combination with sexual penetration, otherwise it's too powerful to make me feel relaxed enough to orgasm.

For internal stim try the womanizer for sure!!

https://www.annsummers.com/sex-toys/sex-toys-womanizer/womanizer-og-vibrator/2006760NO_SIZE.html

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