Posh wank?

[Anonymous6447817]

Found a opened condom wrapper on bedroom floor, we do have condoms in house and he said he used it to wank? But then turned it on me for the way I acted saying I was in the wrong, if it was other way around sure he would be upset and angry until he got an explanation

Actually, this is in fact 'a thing' - and have only really been aware of it the past few years. I don't get all the 'ick' judgment - it's just another way to experience masturbation. If you're not used to wearing a condom - and frankly, aside from moments before intercourse - who is - this can be a way of 'training' your body to relax and get used to the sensation.

A lot of condoms don't fit properly and I reckon most men don't realise that they don't. You can lose sensation or lose the hardness of your erection this way.

I have done this a few times over the past few years. A good way to edge and enjoy feeling harder for longer.

Not as good as say, using a Fleshlight, but then that's a different topic altogether.

It's very common indeed.

I'm a middle aged man and I can add my experience on this subject.

I use condoms to masturbate and have done for many years - I used to buy them for that purpose when single and when married I bought (and still do) for sex and masturbation. I don't always use them when masturbating but the main reason is cleanliness and privacy. If I masturbate in the morning in bed after my partner has got up, it means that the sperm is contained and I can keep it on until I get into the shower. No smell of sperm (rubber smell is much less/not noticable and we use them in our bed for sex anyway) and no wet bits on the duvet/bed. No sperm on my hands.I keep the used condom in tissues and put it in the whellie bin outside (not bathroom bin that the family use). No need for her or family to know - for me it is a private and personal thing and I don't feel shame about it. I also know that my partner masturbates but does not share that she does with me (I know because our vibrator moves its storage position when I'm away from home). Again, it is very personal to my parther and she obviously does not want me to know - that is fine with me and I'm glad she can enjoy the pleasure. We still have plenty of sex.
We also use condoms for intercourse - now for cleanliness (my partner perfers it but does not need them for contraception). They are also good for the lubrication factor during intercourse. We use them about 98% of the time for intercourse.
I enjoy the feel of a condom for intercourse - every partner I have had (5 in total over 40 years) has been one that I used condoms with - I associate condoms with good sex. I also prefer the feel of intercourse with a condom (smoothness and ability to last a while). Hygiene is a 2 way thing - advantage is that my penis does not smell of (healthy) vagina after sex (so easy to wash clean in the sink).

In addition to the cleanliness and privacy factor in masturbation, I like the feeling of the tip of the condom pulled down tight over the "helmet" of my penis - it feels so good and better than just using my hand.

I might be odd and unusual in these traits - but posh wank is a thing for me and I take issue with female members on here saying that it never exists - it does - even though I don't know how common it is.