Having your vagina spanked or caned?

BCBird · 13/08/2023 21:29

If you like it that ace. I onli had two partners. Never articulated what I wanted with first one. 2nd one was much more open. I remember his disbelief wen I washed him.to bite my vagina- not too forcefully obviously. Loved it. Happy dsys

BCBird · 13/08/2023 21:30

Asked not washed🤣

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Butterchips · 13/08/2023 21:32

@BCBird Glad I am not alone in enjoying this kind of play!

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Bexx87 · 13/08/2023 21:36

I like it spanked lightly, it can feel good on the clit, but even more so, I like it it tickled really lightly on the labia and clitoris. It's like an electric shock and I orgasm almost instantly as soon as other stimulation is added.

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Butterchips · 13/08/2023 21:37

@Bexx87 Yeah it is incredible done right try it on your clit after having suction its mind blowing stuff.

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Bexx87 · 13/08/2023 21:44

Do you mean with a suction toy? I'm not a fan, I find them hit and miss. The orgasms can be intense but sometimes take me forever to get there. Prefer a strong vibe like a wand, never lets me down.

AbraKadabraPoof · 13/08/2023 22:41

Butterchips · 13/08/2023 21:03

So this is something I have been doing pretty ever since I started masturbating at first just spanking my vagina with my hand then moving on to using make shift whips and canes on it. It isn't something every partner is into but if I find a man who is into it and canes my vagina during sex well he'll need to peel me off the ceiling! I also enjoy spanking on my bottom, and caning on my thighs and breasts as well as suction toys and clamps. I wouldn't say I am submissive and I don't even know about masochistic because for me there really isn't much pain from these things just a lot of pleasure.

Anyone else like this?

I like a gentle tapping on my vulva, never thought about fully spanking hard though

xpc316e · 14/08/2023 07:30

One man's meat is another man's poison, so if this floats your boat then crack on as far as I am concerned.

I am a little disappointed that women don't seem to know the difference between a vulva and a vagina. This may seem picky and I don't want it to come across as such. I make the comment in the spirit of us all needing to know as much as possible about our bodies and sexuality.

brassmonkeywife · 14/08/2023 07:58

@butterchips - hello Anthony, is it school holidays and fantasies again? So obvious.

Humidititties · 14/08/2023 08:14

brassmonkeywife · 14/08/2023 07:58

@butterchips - hello Anthony, is it school holidays and fantasies again? So obvious.

Well it is the sex thread!

overdalexx · 14/08/2023 15:10

xpc316e · 14/08/2023 07:30

One man's meat is another man's poison, so if this floats your boat then crack on as far as I am concerned.

I am a little disappointed that women don't seem to know the difference between a vulva and a vagina. This may seem picky and I don't want it to come across as such. I make the comment in the spirit of us all needing to know as much as possible about our bodies and sexuality.

I am a little disappointed that women don't seem to know the difference between a vulva and a vagina.

man here - must admit I too was surprised - seemed clear wrong from title.
On subject, had a FB who liked it - had never done it before but as so often with sex with a particular partner maybe I somehow sensed that she would. She thought she had a good C** - (true) so maybe she saw it as some sort of homage.
On caning tits, another partner (she liked her tits - maybe a link here) wanted me to cane them but I politely declined as I had a worry that it might be dangerous/cause some serious medical problem. I don't mean just marks or small cut, something worse. But wondered afterwards if I was a bit of a wuss. Maybe some kind soul (OP?) or someone with medical knowledge can enlighten me. In case am ever asked again.

overdalexx · 14/08/2023 15:12

ps, wasn't clear - vulva interaction was just slapping.

Bexx87 · 14/08/2023 19:01

xpc316e · 14/08/2023 07:30

One man's meat is another man's poison, so if this floats your boat then crack on as far as I am concerned.

I am a little disappointed that women don't seem to know the difference between a vulva and a vagina. This may seem picky and I don't want it to come across as such. I make the comment in the spirit of us all needing to know as much as possible about our bodies and sexuality.

We know what a vulva and a vagina is. We're just not all pedantic. Stop trying to mansplain to women about our own bodies, assuming only a male would right something as stupid as this.

Bexx87 · 14/08/2023 19:01

We know what a vulva and a vagina is. We're just not all pedantic. Stop trying to mansplain to women about our own bodies, assuming only a male would right something as stupid as this.

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xpc316e · 14/08/2023 19:21

Bexx87, your reaction to my post was exactly what I feared. I didn't want to provoke such feelings by writing as I did, but I suppose it was inevitable that someone would feel that way.

I wasn't mansplaining, neither was I being pedantic; I just feel that women ought to know the correct terms for their body parts. I raised my children without recourse to words such as 'willy', 'front bottom', etc., as I didn't want them to have issues later in life in the doctor's surgery. I made sure that they could express themselves without the need for guesswork and assumption.

You quite clearly don't all know the difference between a vulva and a vagina; if all of you did, this thread's title would be different. If someone leaves with a clearer idea of their body parts, then I have done my bit.