Help- I'm so horny!!!

[ArtemisFlop]

Perimenopausal, mid 40s, divorcing after long marriage where sex was rare and underwhelming in final years.

Started HRT and I'm just horny all the time!

I can barelyConcentrate on my job or chores for thinking about sex all the time. I feel like a teenager. It's an incredible feeling but almost unbearable too.

Problem is I have no partner and little prospect of finding one. Anyone else have this in their forties!

Didn’t work for me. I needed physical touch and kissing etc.

my sexual side*

My response was based on the OP being a solo parent, it doesn’t sound like she’d have the opportunity to meet a FWB.

I know. I was just saying that I needed more. I’ve never been a toy girl! I have always needed the real thing.

I am in a similar position. DH has stepped up and I have toys strategically hidden at various points throughout the house so there's always one nearby 😂 it's been about a year now, slowed down a bit but assuming this is the new normal......

I'm 50, divorced, perimenopausal and have just started hrt 2 weeks ago. I have a male friend who I'm hoping will become more...the chemistry is there, and I just constantly want to jump his bones. I'm using my toys so much I think I need shares in duracell

Just curious, were you ever this enthusiastic pre-menopause? Asking as I'm wondering whether this is just putting you back where you were or whether this is a new sensation for you.

@ArtemisFlop I'm going to carefully suggest Fabswingers... Hundreds, if not thousands of guys looking for something casual...

BUT lots of cheaters, wierdos, dreamers and fakes as well. You can set up a free profile, block everybody (quickly!), and then take your time, peruse the, er, menu, and reach out to people you fancy! Your only issue might be free time.

I hope it calms down, or you find someone to help!