Share your favourite vibrators, sex toys, wand massagers and more

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In case you haven't seen yet, we've been busy working on guides to sex essentials that you, our users, swear by. Everything from vibrators, to lubes, to blankets, and more.

In our efforts to make sure we only include items that Mumsnet users actually use themselves and would recommend to others, we'd love it if you could please share your favourite sex toys with us on this thread.

If possible, please include the URL to the product and also a short paragraph about why you like it, what you don't like, would you recommend it...

Your help is appreciated - and we genuinely love to hear your thoughts as it helps us to make sure we're only recommending products our users genuinely use.

Thanks, MNHQ 💐

I love the Durex Bullet.

https://www.boots.com/durex-play-delight

It is small (fits in a make up bag or sponge bag), and quiet. Some toys make a noise akin to a cement mixer in a bedroom whis is off putting to say the least. It is also waterprood which makes a relaxing bath even more relaxing and stress relieving.

I've tried (and own) larger toys but this is the go to one for me.

Doxy Wand. Strong, powerful vibrations that rumble through your entire body and speedily take your orgasm to the next level, due to being able to plug into the wall. Also good to massage other areas of your body. Long cable so you can plug it in almost anywhere and it will reach you. It fits so well in your hand due to the shape and size and the head of the vibrator is so much more smooth and luxurious compared to other wand types.

Yes and put a soft duster on the end and use it to polish your car. Lol.

https://www.lelo.com/smart-wand-2

Lelo is definitely my preferred brand and this wand is my favourite toy. Its vibrations are strong and steady but never uncomfortably intense. It feels good to hold due to its ergonomic design and it looks great.

I bought this grinder from Godemiche. I’d seen them on Esty and they looked a fun alternative to a vibrator to add some extra stimulation. Works a treat partner loves it too. Also love it’s a small British company and we’re really helpful when I was asking which one to try. I went for tall waves.

https://g-silicone.com/product/grind-ring/

This
Dual Clit suction (with multiple speed options) and g-spot simulator (also with multiple speed options). Total winner!

And all I'm getting is adverts for Clarke's granny sandals 😀

i tried this je Joue toy - I like it because you can use it on the g spot and outside really easily. Feels really smooth and the vibrations are much more impressive than others I’ve tried…!

https://shespot.co.uk/collections/sex-toys/products/je-joue-g-spot-vibrator

I've been using this "Pixie" vibrator for around 6 months now (it was recommended to me by a friend) and I love it. I don't get on well with vibrators that are used internally so this one is amazing because it's designed for the clitoris. It's small but powerful and sometimes me and my partner use it during sex (he likes using it as a body massager too HA HA)

https://shespot.co.uk/collections/all/products/the-oh-collective-pixie-vibrator

It's fantastic that you're compiling user-recommended sex essentials!
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Womaniser!! 100x better then my wand

Another vote for the Doxy wand. I've got the rechargeable version so no long cord getting in the way. Intense 9000 rpm vibrations result in all the right sensations. The silicone head is removable and can be replaced with different attachments. At £150 it's not cheap but it's worth every penny. And the customer service is great. Mine broke (possibly through overuse!) and Doxy repaired it free of charge.

doxymassager.com/doxy-die-cast-3r/