Water sports

[littleblackno]

Hi all I am with a relatively new partner (about 10months however we have known each other as friends for many years before)
Sexually we seem to be really compatible and it's all going really well. We have shared some fantasies and acted some of them out.

He is keen on me peeing on him while we have sex. I am happy to try this. Last night we tried and although I had a full bladder I just couldn't 'let go'.

Do any of you have any advice on how I can get over this? Or generally how this can work? It's not something I have any experience in but I do quite like the thought of trying it.

Not our thing but I realise a lot of people do enjoy this. Having noticed you haven't yet had responses just to say that I remember there was a thread on this a few months back which had a lot of positive posts which might be worth scrolling down to if that is helpful?

It can be quite hard to let go because your mind is very aware that this is not the toilet 🤣 sometimes it works to take a deep breath in and then let it out while consciously relaxing your pelvic muscles, sometimes simply visualising peeing or thinking about peeing can help convince your mind to let go, sometimes it works to gently press a hand against your bladder. Sometimes running a tap or shower in the adjoining room can convice your brain. It will get easier (if you enjoy it and continue to do it). :)

Thankyou for the responses I will have a look for the other thread.
I guess we have to keep trying!
I suggested we shower together as I always wee in the shower anyway so that shouldn't be a problem.
We can hopefully work on things from there!

In the shower, and I had to run a tap 😂