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Just for fun - men and women

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princesspollyx · 15/07/2023 08:29

Thinking purely physical, before the chance to get to know someone, what really gets you going?
For me it's big men, tall, chunky and just big in general. Not even muscly, just big.
Maybe it's because I'm quite tall (5ft 7) but I just love big men. I don't think I'd be able to be with a smaller man.
Also beards! With a full head of hair or bald I just love facial hair.
Tattoos are also a nice bonus.

I always wonder if anyone passes me in the street and thinks god she's so my type so think it'd be interesting to know what people like!

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Zanatdy · 15/07/2023 08:31

I love posh accents and confident men. Last two partners have both been quite similar in that they are over confident. Had a chat with a new colleague in the week and was telling her about guy I have been seeing and that he’s a bit cocky and over confident and she was really surprised I’d go for someone like that; as I’m the opposite, I don’t shout about my abilities. These guys are like ‘I’m the best in my team by a long shot’ etc. I also love hair, not into bald men at all, tall but not too tall as I’m not, and slim.

MaryJean87 · 15/07/2023 10:03

I don't really go for any particular look and never have done. All the men I've been attracted to have looked different. I do really like a nice bum though and I've never gone for anyone skinny or really small in height. I like accents too. One of my husband's work colleagues was American and I nearly wet myself every time he talked to me.

Mermaidparades · 15/07/2023 11:31

I love the look of strong (not with weights) forearms in either a crisp white or plaid flannel shirt, with the sleeves rolled up a little. It gives capable and approachable vibes! And friendly, twinkly eyes. I’m not fussed on skin or eye colour.

StarlightLady · 15/07/2023 11:36

If you looked at people I've shared my body with, it is clear I don't have a type. For me it's about passion and chemistry.

MovingonfromMartin · 15/07/2023 12:27

I too, seem to vary what I find attractive. I think I find someone that I have chemistry with and then start to particularly focus on parts that they have that do it for me. A good bicep, hands, lips, neck and hair are my current passions. Mustn't comment on a glorious cock because that would be terribly shallow

everywhichway · 15/07/2023 12:40

Nice eyes, smile and legs all do it for me, but a friendly, open personality has to come with them!

Chellybelle · 15/07/2023 13:18

Big boobs, curvy figure, big ass and a warm personality. A woman who makes me feel safe. I like older women.

Mermaidparades · 15/07/2023 13:49

@Chellybelle you just made this older woman with big ass and boobs smile! I hope you’ve got her, and she is keeping you safe 💗

Yorkieboy · 15/07/2023 14:55

I find facial piercings really attractive. Often the first thing I notice

pendleflyer · 15/07/2023 16:34

Mermaidparades · 15/07/2023 11:31

I love the look of strong (not with weights) forearms in either a crisp white or plaid flannel shirt, with the sleeves rolled up a little. It gives capable and approachable vibes! And friendly, twinkly eyes. I’m not fussed on skin or eye colour.

interesting mermaid - what's the "not with weights" about? You think it looks a bit too self-regarding? Or fear that the muscles/strength will collapse if the training regime slacks off.
(not asking for myself I stress - no arm strength - just interested)

B1rd · 15/07/2023 17:08

Broad, dark haired men with a Dad bod do it for me. I like men around 5' 10/11.

MaryJean87 · 15/07/2023 17:29

B1rd · 15/07/2023 17:08

Broad, dark haired men with a Dad bod do it for me. I like men around 5' 10/11.

I also really love a dad bod. I'd pick that over someone perfectly toned. I don't mean really overweight, just that nice bit of podge on my husband's belly.

myNewName21 · 15/07/2023 17:30

Chellybelle · 15/07/2023 13:18

Big boobs, curvy figure, big ass and a warm personality. A woman who makes me feel safe. I like older women.

^^ 100% This, younger or petite women don’t do it for me, I someone I can get my hands on !

stereoboomer · 15/07/2023 17:30

B1rd · 15/07/2023 17:08

Broad, dark haired men with a Dad bod do it for me. I like men around 5' 10/11.

Hallelujah! Someone likes us lol

lookeelikee · 15/07/2023 17:40

Voice
Neck
Shoulders
Hands
Legs
Ankles
Teeth
Nails

Had a date two weeks ago from OLD. they had dirty nails and crooked teeth. No second cup of coffee and no second date!

Sasha46 · 15/07/2023 18:13

myNewName21 · 15/07/2023 17:30

^^ 100% This, younger or petite women don’t do it for me, I someone I can get my hands on !

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Does that mean your perception of petite women is thin?

xpc316e · 15/07/2023 18:16

In my women I like those who are not too concerned about their appearance. That might sound weird, but if a woman is what I consider to be overly made-up for a trip around Tesco then I am put off. I like a woman to be clean, tidy, and presentable. It's a fine line between taking an interest in her appearance, but not being vain.

I don't have a body type that I go for: I have had relationships with tall women, short women, big women, and petite women. I do like a nice pair of legs though. Being well-spoken and not taking themselves too seriously puts them to the fore, as far as I am concerned.

Chellybelle · 15/07/2023 18:19

Mermaidparades · 15/07/2023 13:49

@Chellybelle you just made this older woman with big ass and boobs smile! I hope you’ve got her, and she is keeping you safe 💗

Aww good to hear. We've been together a good few years now and got 6 kids between us ( we're two women). Love her so much.

StarlightLady · 15/07/2023 18:27

To add to previous comments and picking up on remarks made by another poser, clean nails and clean hair are a must. And on a lighter note, no grey pants!

everywhichway · 15/07/2023 18:51

StarlightLady · 15/07/2023 18:27

To add to previous comments and picking up on remarks made by another poser, clean nails and clean hair are a must. And on a lighter note, no grey pants!

Another poser? Charming!

Wineismygoto · 15/07/2023 19:24

I love a suit, rolled up to the elbows with the forearms exposed preferably hairy and nice manly hands.
Dark hair, dark eyes and stubble.
Nice smile. Slim physique.
I also like tattoos on a man..
I am fussy..but I’ve been attracted to men that don’t fit this description.
A gentleman by day and a devil by night.

myNewName21 · 15/07/2023 19:33

StarlightLady · 15/07/2023 18:27

To add to previous comments and picking up on remarks made by another poser, clean nails and clean hair are a must. And on a lighter note, no grey pants!

Agree with all this and no overpowering perfume, or fake tans or fake eyelashes for me

myNewName21 · 15/07/2023 19:36

not massively keen on full sleeves either

StarlightLady · 15/07/2023 19:55

Someone appears to have lost their way with the heading "Just for fun" and I have become a poser. 😆

everywhichway · 15/07/2023 20:01

StarlightLady · 15/07/2023 19:55

Someone appears to have lost their way with the heading "Just for fun" and I have become a poser. 😆

And a very lovely one you make Starlight!

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