This is a bit embarrassing, but I feel I need to outpour. My DD are 9 & 12, but ever since second DD things have never been as ‘tight’ down there. Suffered with a bit of incontinence but mostly gone now, other than the issue with the odd sneeze where I need to cross my legs. When I was examined at the hospital I was a 1/5 in terms of vaginal laxity, basically need to do some exercises to tone/tighten up. I’m really crap at doing them/remembering/fitting them in.
my DH is ‘average (5”)’ in the trouser department and since kids there’s a lack of friction / sense of fulfilment from PIV sex. We use toys occasionally but I just feel sexually frustrated quite a bit that I’m not getting the fulfilment I crave.
I know it sounds so shallow, I’ve only had a handful of sexual partners and he’s the smallest of them. Before kids sex was okay, we were quite adventurous etc and it didn’t bother me but now since kids I just feel so sexually frustrated.
I know I need to crack on and do the bloody exercises, has anyone been in this situation and found they work/make a difference?
I feel so horrible posting this but I just want to have mind blowing, hot sweaty, passionate sex again with some sensation down there!!